Covert Narcissistic Abuse

07/17/2025

This page has concluded its usefulness. I will not make any more posts and hope you have been able to take something from it. It has helped me process, learn and grow in many ways. Healing is not linear and unless we face ourselves, our pain, our fears, our shortcomings and sins, He cannot teach us and He can't set us free. Today, I celebrated a huge milestone and victory. He has transformed me and I am made new. I will continue in a new direction and started a new page. Here is the link if you would like some positive and godly inspiration.

https://www.facebook.com/share/1BxggTJZEB/

To honor God, the storms He brings us through and the victory we have because of it.

07/16/2025

I'm getting that impression...maybe it's getting harder to keep the illusion alive?

07/15/2025

Thanking God I'm not like that! What personal hell they must live in?

07/15/2025

When you realize you were just an emotional pitstop, there to make them feel safe, loved and whole again - it changes you.

07/14/2025

Amen. And praying for forgiveness without repentance and taking accountability is equally pointless.

07/13/2025

Moving on OR moving forward. Big difference!

07/12/2025

A new mask for the new relationship. Saying and doing what he thinks is expected and normal in order to keep their illusion alive...until the dopamine comes down, the mask starts to slip, and the old guilt and shame come back. Predictable.

Men don’t seek healing... they seek hiding. Instead of facing their demons, sitting in accountability, or going to therapy, too many just find a new woman who hasn’t seen behind the mask yet. A clean slate. A fresh set of ears to hear the same recycled lies. A new heart to manipulate before the old one has even finished bleeding.

They don’t reflect. They replace. They skip the part where they ask, “Why did I do that?” and go straight into “Who can I do it to next?” And the saddest part? Most of the time, the next woman has no idea that she’s not walking into love...she’s walking into someone else’s unfinished mess.

It’s easier to find a new woman than it is to face the old pain. Easier to charm someone new than to sit in therapy and unpack the trauma they’ve spent years running from. Easier to tell new lies than to own old truths.
And while he’s out there pretending to be “changed,” the woman he left behind is forced to rebuild herself from the damage. She’s healing from things she didn’t break, stitching up wounds she didn’t cause, all while watching him pretend to be a better man to someone new. But make no mistake....if he didn’t do the work, he’s just repeating the same patterns in a different setting. Healing isn’t in a new body. It’s in the mirror.

Real men go to counseling. They don’t run, they rebuild. They don’t seek escape, they seek growth. And until that shift happens, good women will continue getting hurt by broken men who confuse moving on with moving forward.
There’s a big difference.
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07/11/2025

I am forever changed...growing, learning, forgiving myself and loving the One who matters most.

Cheating on a woman who did nothing but love you… is one of the lowest, coldest, most heartbreaking betrayals there is. Because it’s not just about crossing a physical line...it’s about destroying the one place where she felt safe. It’s about shattering the heart of the one person who would’ve gone to war for you with nothing but her love as armor.

Do you know what it takes for a woman to open up fully? To trust you with her body, her heart, her time, her future? It takes courage. It takes softness. It takes a level of vulnerability that doesn’t come easy....especially in a world that constantly teaches her to guard herself. But she chose you. She let her walls down. She loved you with a kind of loyalty that didn’t waver, even when things weren’t perfect. She was in your corner. She believed in you. She prayed for you. She bragged about you when you didn’t even deserve it. She gave you everything.

And you gave her betrayal.
You gave her silence when she needed reassurance. You gave her confusion when she asked for clarity. You gave her lies when all she ever offered you was truth. And while she was up late trying to figure out what she did wrong, you were out giving someone else the version of you she begged for.

That’s not just cheating. That’s cruelty.
Because she wasn’t just your girlfriend. She was your peace. Your comfort. The one who stood by you when you didn’t even love yourself. And instead of protecting her heart like she trusted you to, you broke it. Carelessly. Thoughtlessly. Like all that time, all those memories, all those "I love yous" were disposable.

You’ll regret it one day...maybe not now, maybe not tomorrow...but one day. Because you don’t get to find that kind of love twice. You don’t get to rebuild the kind of trust you burned down just to feel powerful, desired, or validated for a moment.

You cheated on a woman who would’ve stayed, who would’ve forgiven, who would’ve healed with you. And now, you’ve turned her into someone who has to learn how to heal from you.
And that? That’s the kind of pain that changes a woman forever.
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07/10/2025

Just nasty. 🤮 How sad their life must be to crawl through someone else's relationship to get attention.

07/10/2025

God IS love. If you claim to know God but don't give or receive love, you may not know either.

07/09/2025

One day at a time...sometimes, one hour at a time.

07/08/2025

I AM because of HIM. ❤️