02/23/2026
Trauma affects how we see ourselves, others, and the world.
When we catch ourselves in negative self thoughts, it's helpful to ask, "would I say this to someone else? Would I allow someone to say this to my friend or my child?"
When we recognize our negative thought patterns we can begin to flip the script from criticism to compassion.
Having self-compassion isn’t about gaslighting yourself and pretending everything is okay when it’s not. It’s noticing what you're going through, giving yourself space to feel it, and responding with kindness and understanding (the way we would with a friend).