04/04/2026
The expression of affection within multiple relationships can never be identical because our relationships are not the same. We cannot parent in a bubble, and our kids develop as a reaction to both nature and nurture. Children are unique individuals with a combination of needs and temperaments unlike anyone else. Therefore, as parents, we must adapt, meet those needs, navigate their temperament, and actively show our love in the best way possible for each child.
This isn’t a competition, and there is no scoreboard. So rather than vaguely saying “Oh, I love my kids all the same/equally”, I encourage you to acknowledge the differences and appreciate what makes them (and your bond) so special to you.