Demure Lyfe

Demure Lyfe Just shining my light and giving my offerings as I know how. I am a Shaman, Oracle, and Metaphysical Teacher operating in Chester New York.

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You’re not stuck. Your body is just still running the old program.Soul ties don’t break with insight.They dissolve when ...
02/03/2026

You’re not stuck. Your body is just still running the old program.

Soul ties don’t break with insight.
They dissolve when your nervous system stops trying to survive the connection.

This has nothing to do with obsession.
Nothing to do with weakness.
It’s pattern memory.
It’s body memory.
It’s the blueprint trying to reorganize itself without a familiar anchor.

You don’t need drama.
You don’t need a ritual.
You don’t even need “closure.”

You need new regulation.
And a body that stops reaching backwards for what it once used to stay alive.

Some soul ties don’t end with fire.
They end with silence.
With stillness.
With a body that no longer reacts.

That’s not detachment.
That’s the real break.
That’s how you know it’s healed.

Save this for the next time your mind feels ready but your body isn’t.
🖤

Black history isn’t just something we remember once a year.It lives in the body.In how you breathe when you’re stressed....
02/01/2026

Black history isn’t just something we remember once a year.
It lives in the body.

In how you breathe when you’re stressed.
In how rhythm still settles you without explanation.
In how your nervous system learned to stay alert long before you had language for it.

None of that was accidental.
It was survival.

But survival isn’t the only inheritance.

Our people held joy too.
They laughed. They danced. They rested when they could.
Joy was never frivolous. It was how the spirit stayed intact.

So when you slow your breath, that’s not small.
When you rest, that’s not laziness.
When your body starts to feel safe, that’s not weakness.

That’s memory reorganizing itself.

Black history didn’t end.
It lives on through us.

In breath.
In rhythm.
In rest.
In joy.

What you reclaim now moves forward.

🖤

This month isn’t asking you to be softer for people who keep you anxious. It’s asking you to be devoted to what restores...
02/01/2026

This month isn’t asking you to be softer for people who keep you anxious. It’s asking you to be devoted to what restores you.

If it costs your nervous system, it’s not love.
If it’s “chemistry” but feels like a pattern, clock it.
If you keep negotiating your needs, you’re not in romance, you’re in survival.

February is for:
🔥 cutting cords, not corners
🔥 warming your own hands first
🔥 choosing yourself daily, not occasionally
🔥 devotion, not desperation

Save this for the day you start romanticizing what drains you.
Send it to the friend who keeps calling anxiety “butterflies.”

Venus Day. Friday. Love is listening.Love is the most powerful force you can invite into your life.Not just the kind tha...
01/30/2026

Venus Day. Friday. Love is listening.

Love is the most powerful force you can invite into your life.
Not just the kind that finds you in another body.
But the kind that finally finds you inside your own chest.

This Is Love isn’t just incense.
It’s a working.

I took my most cherished Love Oil by Demure Lyfe and worked it directly into this self-lighting incense.
Blessed. Prayed over. Sung to.
Six full moon cycles.

Six.
The number of The Lovers in Tarot.
Divine union. Harmony. Choice. Alignment.

This blend doesn’t chase romance.
It magnetizes truth.

The love that heals.
The love that awakens.
The love that stands on its own feet and doesn’t beg to be chosen.

If you’re calling in partnership, it will meet you where you’re ready.
If you’re calling yourself back, it will answer just as loudly.

Highly concentrated. Ready to use.
No charcoal. No extras.

Pinch a little bit into a fire-safe bowl.
Light it directly.
The smoke is thick. Rich. Intentional.

Let it travel.
Let it reach.
Let it bring you exactly what you need.

Happy Venus Day.
Love is already on its way.

This one’s for the mothers. The doulas. The gatekeepers. The ones holding the line between this world and the next.I was...
01/30/2026

This one’s for the mothers. The doulas. The gatekeepers. The ones holding the line between this world and the next.

I was inspired to speak on this by one of my favorite students — Jazmin — a real-deal doula who’s been working her ass off lately bringing babies into the world with power and presence. I see you boo. You’re not just supporting births. You’re protecting portals. 🔥

Here’s what most people don’t talk about:
When a baby is born, it’s not just a body entering the world — it’s a spiritual gate opening. New souls attract old spirits. Envy. Ancestral energy. And yes, even energetic attacks.

Postpartum isn’t just medical — it’s magickal.
It’s also vulnerable. Which is why it needs to be spiritually guarded like a temple.

If you’re a mother, about to be one, or raising a child — this is your reminder:
✨ Not everyone gets to touch your baby.
✨ Smoke cleanse your home often.
✨ Keep evil eye off your timeline.
✨ Call in the ancestors who protect you.
✨ Guard your aura before people visit.

This is spiritual work. Not aesthetic parenting.

We’re not doing casual postpartum over here. We’re doing consecrated postpartum.
We’re treating the child like the divine soul they are — and the mother like the sacred being she is.

Tag a doula. Tag a new mama. Tag a spirit-led woman who gets it.
This work is holy. And it deserves our protection.


This Leo Full Moon on Feb 1 isn’t just emotional.It’s exposing.If you’ve been over-explaining, over-functioning, or tole...
01/29/2026

This Leo Full Moon on Feb 1 isn’t just emotional.
It’s exposing.

If you’ve been over-explaining, over-functioning, or tolerating too much in the name of peace — this is the moment your spirit says no.

And it’s not because you’re “triggered.”
It’s because your nervous system has stopped co-signing what your mouth keeps trying to rationalize.

Here’s the part people don’t tell you:
Mars and Pluto are both involved in this moon.

Which means:
• Power dynamics are getting loud
• Control patterns are surfacing
• Your body might feel restless, agitated, or completely over it

Mars brings pressure. Pluto brings truth.
Put them together under a Leo Moon and you get a full-body reminder that being seen is not the same as being respected.

And if you’ve been dimming, explaining, or managing everyone’s perception of you — this moon will make that feel unbearable.

If it’s landing heavy, I got you.
I’m hosting a LIVE Full Moon Offering on Patreon — for the ones ready to move with this energy instead of getting spun by it.

Readings. Ritual. Realignment.
🕯️ Zoom details are already inside Patreon.
🌕 FEB 1, 2026
This container is for people who are done betraying themselves quietly.

Not every thought is a download.Not every pull is a sign.Not every glitch is spirit.Sometimes you’re overwhelmed.Sometim...
01/29/2026

Not every thought is a download.
Not every pull is a sign.
Not every glitch is spirit.

Sometimes you’re overwhelmed.
Sometimes it’s trauma.
Sometimes it’s just noise.

And if you don’t slow down enough to test it, you’ll build your whole life around a message that was never yours to begin with.

This carousel isn’t here to scare you.
It’s here to sharpen you.

Because real spirit communication is clear.
It’s timely.
It’s precise.
It doesn’t need to shout to be heard.

People swear they’re happy for you, but their energy says otherwise.Envy don’t need a spell.It just needs a scroll, a st...
01/28/2026

People swear they’re happy for you, but their energy says otherwise.
Envy don’t need a spell.
It just needs a scroll, a stare, and a little unprocessed resentment.

This is why I move different now.
Not because I’m scared —
Because I know how fast spiritual shade can latch on when you’re lit.

Eyes carry intention.
Energy travels.
Your spirit picks up what your mind can’t always explain.

So no, I don’t post every blessing in real time.
I protect what’s still rooting.
I share what’s sealed.

If this hit, save it.
If you feel it in your body — send it to the one person who needs to see it.

A lot of folks pray with their heart in the right place.But the rest of them ain’t in agreement yet.The mind is still do...
01/28/2026

A lot of folks pray with their heart in the right place.
But the rest of them ain’t in agreement yet.

The mind is still doubting.
The mouth is still repeating old stories.
And the body is still moving in fear or habit.

That doesn’t mean you’re not spiritual.
It doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong.
It just means your energy’s not all facing the same direction.

The Three Gates Prayer is how I check myself:
Is my mind clear?
Is my mouth clean?
Is my movement aligned?

It’s not about perfection.
It’s about learning how to pause long enough to choose truth over trauma.

If your prayers have felt like they’re floating in circles lately — come back to the gates.

This is a checkpoint. A practice. A way to pull your power back in.

Save this if you need it.
Come back to it when you’re about to move sideways.
You’ll feel the shift immediately.

Bring the tea. I’ll bring the truth. ☕️ASK SIENNA is open for questions, confessions, and “I need to know what this real...
01/28/2026

Bring the tea. I’ll bring the truth. ☕️
ASK SIENNA is open for questions, confessions, and “I need to know what this really is.”

I’ve been feeling called to go old school with it. Growing up, I lived for advice columns. The letters, the honesty, the way one person’s story would end up helping everybody else. So I’m bringing that energy back, Demure Lyfe style. 📬🕯️

I’m not judging you.
I am going to tell you what it is. 🙂

Be honest: what category do you need right now?
1. Relationships
2. Spiritual hygiene
3. Purpose + money
4. Family healing

📩 info@demurelyfe.com
Subject: ASK SIENNA
Anonymous submissions welcome (letters will be shared publicly within my newsletter, edited for privacy + clarity).

This isn’t content. This is intel.Over the last few days, Spirit’s been talking. I’ve been listening.What’s coming throu...
01/27/2026

This isn’t content. This is intel.

Over the last few days, Spirit’s been talking. I’ve been listening.
What’s coming through isn’t fear — it’s pattern. It’s energy. It’s game.

Get out of your feelings and into your focus.
Because your nervous system is being farmed … and if you’re not careful, your clarity will be too.

You don’t need hope.
You need presence. Be available to your community.


Only 20 bottles of my Black Hawk Oil left. When it’s gone, it’s gone until Spring/Summer when I can forage fresh ingredi...
01/27/2026

Only 20 bottles of my Black Hawk Oil left. When it’s gone, it’s gone until Spring/Summer when I can forage fresh ingredients again. 🌿🦅

This is my most potent formulation for strength and protection. Period.

Black Hawk is honored in Conjure as a powerful Afro-Indigenous Indian Spirit Guide and warrior current, rooted in the Spiritual Church Movement and revered across Louisiana traditions. This oil is made to carry that authoritative, don’t-play-with-me energy, the kind that straightens your spine and clears your path.

What’s inside (and why it hits):
• A rooted blend of herbs + roots + intention crafted for spiritual strength and protection
• Calamus root to amplify command, dominance, and inner authority
• A touch of marigold for support in court matters and legal situations

How to work it:
• Dress hands + feet to guide your steps and move you where you need to go
• Anoint your hands before signing contracts
• Dress items of value for protection

Scent profile: earthy with woody undertones. Gender-neutral energy. And yes, a little goes a long way.

⚠️ Skin test first. This formula contains trace amounts of bee venom. If you have a bee allergy, leave a note at checkout so I can swap in a substitute.

20 bottles. After that, we wait for the land to open back up. 🌞🌱

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Chester, NY
10918

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Thursday 12pm - 5pm
Friday 12pm - 5pm
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