Demure Lyfe

Demure Lyfe Just shining my light and giving my offerings as I know how. I am a Shaman, Oracle, and Metaphysical Teacher operating in Chester New York.

For Distance Services please visit www.demurelyfe.com to schedule

So I’m opening my 6-week class:Dream Codes of Afro-Indigenous Lineages🗓 May 21st — June 25th🕯 Live on Zoom • Thursdays 8...
04/21/2026

So I’m opening my 6-week class:

Dream Codes of Afro-Indigenous Lineages

🗓 May 21st — June 25th
🕯 Live on Zoom • Thursdays 8PM EST
🔁 Replay access available

This isn’t “let’s Google what a snake means.”

I’m teaching you how to actually understand what your dreams are saying:

• what’s spiritual vs emotional vs just your mind clearing out
• how ancestors use symbols, repetition, and timing
• why certain dreams won’t leave you alone
• how to stop second guessing what you’re seeing

If your dreams have been getting louder lately…
This is for you!

If you’re on my Patreon, you already know I don’t hold back in there.

Y’all also get a discount code for this class 👀

(so yes… being on Patreon actually comes with perks)

If you’ve been feeling that pull, this is where you follow it.

Enrollment is open.

Come learn how to read what’s already being shown to you.

https://demure-lyfe-academy.teachable.com/l/pdp/dream-codes-of-afro-indigenous-lineages?mc_cid=bdf933b161

Today was for the Little Lights ✨All boys in class today… and it hit me again just how necessary this work is. Our youth...
04/18/2026

Today was for the Little Lights ✨

All boys in class today… and it hit me again just how necessary this work is. Our youth are not “too young” to learn regulation, awareness, and healing — they’re right on time for it.

Our focus today was teaching them how to feel without being consumed.How to calm their bodies.How to understand their energy instead of running from it.

That’s real power.

I don’t take these moments lightly. Being able to pour love, healing, and knowledge into them… it’s an honor every single time.

If you’ve been thinking about getting your little one into something that actually builds them from the inside out — this is it.

Join us Saturdays at 12PM 🕊️Let them learn themselves early. Sign up at www.demurelyfe.com

A lot of y’all not “honest.”You just don’t know how to control your mouth.Let’s be real.Honesty ain’t just saying whatev...
04/16/2026

A lot of y’all not “honest.”
You just don’t know how to control your mouth.

Let’s be real.

Honesty ain’t just saying whatever comes to your head.
That’s the part nobody wants to hear.

Honesty got discipline behind it.
Timing behind it.
Awareness behind it.

Brutality?
That’s just you talking out your feelings and calling it truth.

That’s anger.
That’s projection.
That’s you wanting to get something off your chest… not actually help nobody.

And then you slap “I’m just being real” on top of it.

No. You being reckless.

Because real honesty respects boundaries.
It knows not every truth is yours to speak on.
And not every moment is the time to say it.

Some of y’all be saying “truth” just to cut somebody.
Just to feel powerful.
Just to release what YOU feel.

That ain’t honesty. That’s ego.

If what you said left confusion, tension, and emotional mess behind…
you didn’t “keep it real.”

You created damage.

And here’s the part people don’t like:

You can be right…
and still be dead wrong in HOW you said it.

Truth is supposed to bring clarity- not confusion…

So before you open your mouth talking about “I’m just being honest”…

Ask yourself:

Am I speaking to bring clarity?
Or am I speaking because I feel something and don’t know how to hold it?

Because truth without control…
turns into a weapon real fast.

Everybody wanna scream “spiritual attack”but nobody wanna admit they keep making the same choices.Some of y’all not bein...
04/15/2026

Everybody wanna scream “spiritual attack”
but nobody wanna admit they keep making the same choices.

Some of y’all not being targeted…
you’re just experiencing the outcome of what you keep allowing.

And that’s the part people don’t wanna sit with.

Because it’s easier to blame energy
than to admit you ignored your own intuition.

You saw it.
You felt it.
You just didn’t move different.

So now it’s “why is this happening to me?”

Be real.

Spiritual attacks are real.
But so is a lack of discipline.
So is repeating cycles.
So is choosing comfort over truth.

And no amount of protection work
is gonna fix what you keep participating in.

That’s the conversation.

Learn the difference.
Because everything ain’t warfare…
some of it is just consequence.

Not every Ancestor is aligned with your elevation.Blood doesn’t equal authority.And that doesn’t make people comfortable...
04/14/2026

Not every Ancestor is aligned with your elevation.
Blood doesn’t equal authority.

And that doesn’t make people comfortable.

Because a lot of people were taught not to question anything tied to their lineage.

Just accept it.
Just carry it.
Just continue it.

But some of what you come from… needs to end.

Not everything that was passed down was meant to keep going.
Some of it was survival.
Some of it was limitation.
Some of it was never questioned.

And if you don’t stop and look at it for what it is,
you’ll keep calling it “guidance” when it’s really just repetition.

There are parts of your lineage that will support you.

And there are parts that will keep pulling you back into what’s familiar.

Same patterns.
Same dynamics.
Same outcomes.

Just different timing.

And the truth is…
a lot of people stay stuck because they don’t want to feel like they’re going against where they come from.

But evolving is going to feel like that sometimes.

You’re not here to agree with everything in your bloodline.

You’re here to decide what continues through you… and what doesn’t.

That’s the work.

You are not required to carry the emotional weight of your lineage to honor it.Some of y’all are holding pain that didn’...
04/13/2026

You are not required to carry the emotional weight of your lineage to honor it.

Some of y’all are holding pain that didn’t even start with you…
and calling it respect.

That’s not respect.
That’s unprocessed grief being passed down.

You don’t have to stay heavy to stay connected.
You don’t have to suffer to prove loyalty.

And you definitely don’t have to keep repeating what hurt your people just to feel close to them.

A lot of what was passed down wasn’t meant to be kept forever.
It was survival.
It got people through what they were in.

But you’re not there anymore.

So now you have a choice.

You can keep carrying it…
or you can be the one who puts it down.

That’s what real honor looks like.

A lot of folks ask me about this.Why they suddenly feel anxious, orwhy their emotions don’t feel stable anymore. Most of...
04/13/2026

A lot of folks ask me about this.

Why they suddenly feel anxious, or
why their emotions don’t feel stable anymore. Most of the time…

They opened themselves spiritually…
but never learned how to protect, close, or regulate what they were interacting with.

So now everything hits them at once.

Not everything you feel is yours.
Not everything that enters your awareness should be allowed to stay.

And if you don’t have boundaries in your spiritual practice,
your mind ends up carrying what your spirit opened.

That’s where the overwhelm comes from.

If this is something you’re dealing with, I do go deeper into this.

I have a self-led course in my bio called
“Get The Funk Off”. If you’re seeing this on Facebook, you can find it on my website www.demurelyfe.com under Demure Lyfe Academy.

It breaks down how to clear, protect, and actually stabilize your system so you’re not walking around feeling like this.

Because spiritual work without structure will always cost you something.

Some Ancestors will support your growth.Others will test if you’re serious about it.And a lot of people don’t realize th...
04/11/2026

Some Ancestors will support your growth.
Others will test if you’re serious about it.

And a lot of people don’t realize that both can come from the same lineage.

Everybody wants to feel guided.
Nobody wants to admit they’re being checked.

Because what people call “setbacks” or “why is this happening again”… a lot of the time, it’s the same pattern coming back to see if you’re still the same person.

Same situation.
Same pressure point.

Just a different day.

And the real question is never “why is this happening again?”

It is : Are you about to respond the same way?

Because you can say you’ve healed all day.
You can say you’ve grown.
You can say you’re done.
But your actions will answer that for you when it shows back up.

That’s where the work is.

Not in what you know.
In what you do differently.

Some Ancestors will open doors for you.
Others will stand in front of the same old one you kept walking through… just to see if you still recognize it.

Pay attention to what keeps repeating.
That’s where you’re being watched the closest.

🖤

04/10/2026

I agree- but I wouldn’t drink them in the teabags you buy in the store like this. Invest in the actual herb and make your own loose leaf teas!

Reiki is back. June 6–7, 2026.And this isn’t just a class — it’s where you finally understand what you’ve been feeling.R...
04/10/2026

Reiki is back. June 6–7, 2026.

And this isn’t just a class — it’s where you finally understand what you’ve been feeling.

Reiki is the practice of working with life force energy. Not guessing. Not hoping. Actually knowing how to feel it, move it, and direct it for healing — for yourself and for others.

A lot of people are intuitive… but untrained.

Sensitive… but unsupported.

Aware… but not anchored.

This space is for:• Those ready to begin their Reiki journey the right way…
Or
Those who already started, but know their foundation needs strengthening.

I teach Reiki I and Reiki II in the same container — intentionally.

If you’re new, you’ll be certified in Reiki I, but you’ll also be exposed to Reiki II so you understand the depth of what you’re stepping into.

If you’re returning for Reiki II, you’ll receive a real refresh of Reiki I — because most people skip that part, and it shows in their practice.

I offer structure. Discipline. Clarity.

If you’ve been feeling the pull, the curiosity, the quiet knowing…this is your moment to stop circling it and step in.

Sign up is in the bio or below!

https://demurelyfe.com/products/reiki-i-and-ii-merge-weekend?_pos=1&_psq=reiki&_ss=e&_v=1.0&variant=39564679020641

Happy Friday! I’m feeling today will be a good day! Wishing all of you all of the advancement you desire to take fligh...
04/10/2026

Happy Friday! I’m feeling today will be a good day! Wishing all of you all of the advancement you desire to take flight and get you to exactly where you want to go!

I’m in the shoppe today , come on by!

Everybody wants awareness.That’s the part that feels powerful.That’s the part that makes you feel like you’re doing some...
04/10/2026

Everybody wants awareness.
That’s the part that feels powerful.
That’s the part that makes you feel like you’re doing something.

You can name the pattern.
You can trace the wound.
You can break down the trauma, the attachment, the cycle.

And for a moment… it feels like progress.

But awareness alone doesn’t change your life.
It just makes you conscious of what you’re still tolerating.

That’s the part people don’t want to sit with.

Because once you know, you can’t pretend you don’t.
Now it’s not confusion.
Now it’s a decision.

And a lot of people stay in awareness because it’s safer than action.

Awareness doesn’t require you to lose anything.
Action does.

Action might cost you relationships.
It might cost you comfort.
It might require you to become someone unfamiliar to yourself.

So instead… people sit in cycles they fully understand.
Calling it healing.
Calling it timing.
Calling it “I’m still processing.”

But your Spirit isn’t responding to what you understand.
It’s responding to what you’re willing to do differently.

You don’t break cycles by recognizing them.
You break cycles by disrupting them.

And disruption is uncomfortable by design.

It’s saying no when you used to say yes.
It’s leaving when you used to stay.
It’s choosing discipline when your body wants familiarity.

That’s why real healing doesn’t feel poetic.
It feels like friction.
It feels like resistance.
It feels like choosing yourself in ways you’re not used to.

So if you’ve been aware for a while…
and nothing in your life is actually changing…
be honest with yourself.

You’re not stuck because you don’t know.
You’re stuck because you haven’t moved.

And movement doesn’t require perfection.
It requires a decision.

One real decision will shift more than a year of overthinking ever will.

So the question isn’t
“what do I need to understand next?”

It’s
“what do I already know… that I’m avoiding acting on?”

That’s where your next level is. 🔥

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