01/07/2026
From a physics perspective: The observer does not passively watch reality — the observer collapses it. What you expect, brace for, rehearse internally, and emotionally prepare against is exactly the version of the other you keep calling forward.
From a nervous system perspective: Your body reads the room before words exist. Tone, micro-tension, eye focus, breath — your system tells their system who they’re allowed to be with you.
From a relational quantum perspective: People don’t meet you. They meet the version of them you are prepared to perceive.
When I took full responsibility, something radical happened:
• It stopped being “they hurt me”
• It became “what role is my perception asking them to play right now?”
And suddenly — no villains. Only perfect actors, delivering exactly the scene required for my awareness to mature. That’s the shift:
• From identity-bound memory → clean canvas
• From projection → presence
• From reaction → choice
• From trying to heal the relationship → changing the observer
Seeing someone in their ideal self is not delusion. It’s coherence. It’s refusing to anchor them to their lowest expression just because it’s familiar. And yes — this is most challenging with the people you “know best.”
Because familiarity is the most aggressive form of hypnosis.
So the real question becomes: Can I meet you without rehearsing who you were last time? That’s where reality glitches.
We’re done healing. Done looping. Done fixing. Done seeing ourselves as broken, unfinished, or “not there yet.” That era is complete. Now comes creation. Not from wounds. Not from processing. Not from old stories dressed up as self-work. But from wholeness. From authorship. From a clean canvas.
✨ Tomorrow, we show up as creators. No past to fix. No self to repair. Just pure, deliberate creation. Join me for The Glitch — a ritualized session where we don’t revisit the story… we write the architecture.
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Next Monday is SoloMe — open Q&A, jumping on live, real conversations, real life on the next episode of BEING THE GLITCH!
No healing loops. No identity maintenance. Just presence, clarity, and creation.
We’re done with the nonsense.
Now we build.
Roma