12/28/2025
The holidays tend to come with a lot of uninvited guests like food guilt, body comments, and pressure to “make up for” what you eat.
Diet culture gets especially loud this time of year, and it can be even more intense if you’re already navigating disordered eating, recovery, or complicated feelings about your body.
If you’ve ever caught yourself judging what’s on your plate or feeling like you have to “earn” certain foods, you’re not alone.
But holiday food isn’t a moral test.
There’s nothing about a cookie, a second helping, or a special dessert that makes you a better or worse person.
Words like “good” and “bad” food usually come from diet culture, not from truth or care.
Eating something you enjoy isn’t a failure, and it doesn’t cancel out the work you’re doing to heal.
Your body still deserves enough food, rest, and kindness, even during a season that tells you to do the opposite.
Practicing food neutrality looks like gently naming those patterns and reminding yourself that your worth isn’t up for debate based on what you eat at a holiday table.
Your body doesn’t need to be fixed or perfected for the holidays.
You’re allowed to show up exactly as you are, to enjoy traditions if they feel good, skip them if they don’t, and choose what feels safest for you in this season.
Healing your relationship with food and your body is a process, and you deserve support that honors the full story of how you got here.
If this time of year feels heavy around food, body image, or family expectations, you don’t have to navigate it by yourself.
You can connect with a clinician or explore how we can support you at transcendchicago.com/our-team as you move through the holidays with more ease.