02/24/2026
Sometimes we think we want to be seen, but what we actually want is to be understood. Or maybe it's not about being perceived at all, maybe it's about finally feeling safe enough to exist without commentary.
There's no wrong answer here. Just yours.
Take some time with this one. Notice what comes up. Notice if the answer surprises you or if it's changed over time. Your needs around visibility and recognition are allowed to be complicated and specific to you.
And if you're realizing you don't actually know what you need yet? That's okay too. Therapy can help you figure that out.
***rTherapy