12/26/2025
After the game, our tendency is to focus on the outcome:
"You played so well!" "Great win!" "It's OK you lost, you tried so hard!"
But the value of sports comes from the PROCESS, not the OUTCOME.
And it is on us to teach this our kids.
Instead of asking about the score or stats, try this:
1️⃣ What did you enjoy?
2️⃣ What did you learn?
These two simple questions help kids focus on the process, not just the outcome: building confidence, resilience, and a lifelong love for sports. 💙
Tag another parent who needs this reminder! 🙌