Be The Change Therapeutic Services

Be The Change Therapeutic Services Life Coaching, Couples Mediation, Workshops, Speaking Engagements, Consultations, and Interventions

Hey community! After years of only accepting Blue cross blue shield I am finally paneled with United healthcare. I also ...
05/15/2025

Hey community! After years of only accepting Blue cross blue shield I am finally paneled with United healthcare. I also have a few openings that won’t be around for long so if you’ve been wanting to get on my books here’s your chance. Don’t forget to share with a friend 🤗

All sessions are virtual. Let’s work! ❤️

It’s so dope to be at this point in my career where I’m speaking to soon to be counselors about social media branding as...
04/08/2025

It’s so dope to be at this point in my career where I’m speaking to soon to be counselors about social media branding as a therapist. I didn’t realize how much I know about the subject until I had to create a presentation. God is amazing 🥹❤️

Thank you to one of my favorite therapists and colleagues Dr. Domo Barnes-Walker for inviting me to come speak to her students at Adler University 🤝🏾

Sometimes things aren’t as black and white as we try to make them out to be. As long as you are still able bodied to wor...
05/31/2022

Sometimes things aren’t as black and white as we try to make them out to be. As long as you are still able bodied to work towards something, you didn’t “fail” at it. You may have postponed it, or decided it wasn’t actually what you wanted but that doesn’t have to equate to failure.

S**t sometimes we succeed at something and it doesn’t give us the feeling we thought we’d have, so this isn’t the end all be all either. Be ok with doing things as long as they feel worthy of doing. As long as you see value in what you’re investing your time, energy, and resources into, that’s all that matters, despite what the journey looks like.

Motivation is a tough cookie. It’s great when we have it, but when we don’t we can easily start to feel purposeless, los...
05/23/2022

Motivation is a tough cookie. It’s great when we have it, but when we don’t we can easily start to feel purposeless, lost, or insecure about where we are in life. But we can’t stop here.

My good fellow therapist Saiyd described the concept of motivation to me like this “Motivation is like gas in your car. You ride for a while towards a destination and you get to the point where you run out of gas. Just because you ran out of gas doesn’t meant that you should scrap the trip. You just pull over, regroup, and get more gas”.

Our commitment and discipline towards what we wants is what helps replenish our motivation. If we’ve lost sight of why we started, we may need to reevaluate if what we’re working towards is what we really want and even find new reasons to keep going.

Ya girl finally got on another panel! It only took 10000 months but we here 😂🙌🏾 I currently have about 5 biweekly appoin...
05/18/2022

Ya girl finally got on another panel! It only took 10000 months but we here 😂🙌🏾

I currently have about 5 biweekly appointment slots I’m looking to fill! Unfortunately no evenings 🥴 but if you know someone who can make it work and has Humana or bcbs plz send them my way ❤️

I always say people go to therapy to deal with the people in their lives who won’t go to therapy. A lot of my work with ...
05/09/2022

I always say people go to therapy to deal with the people in their lives who won’t go to therapy. A lot of my work with clients is strategizing how to navigate interpersonal relationships. When strangers are mean or nasty it’s easier to let their comments or behavior roll off your shoulders but when it comes to people we interact with on a consistent basis, our feelings get a little more involved.

Many of the negative messages we carry around in our heads and in our hearts are usually a result of someone else putting their s**t on to us. And for many of us, this started when we were young, before we were able to really establish our own identity.

But now is the time to put that s**t back on them and reclaim your power. When we can acknowledge that a negative interaction has nothing to do with us and everything to do with the other person, we are better able to leave the interaction unfazed no matter who it is.

I love love so I want to see everyone have a happy Valentine’s Day this year and every year. Of course you should be sho...
02/07/2022

I love love so I want to see everyone have a happy Valentine’s Day this year and every year. Of course you should be showing your partner love all year round, but holidays give us the opportunity to show them a little extra attention and affection so we should take advantage.

I will say that if you have a solid relationship where your partner consistently meets your needs and makes you feel loved, Valentine’s Day shouldn’t be the end all be all or make or break. Conversations around expectations for holidays are important and help to prevent disappointment. Make sure you and your partner communicate about this so you’re on the same page ❤️

I’ve done a lot of work with couples over the last year and a half and one thing I’ve been able to see up close is how p...
02/07/2022

I’ve done a lot of work with couples over the last year and a half and one thing I’ve been able to see up close is how people can use the word love as a crutch for preserving a relationship even when the acts of it is absent. Love and relationships are an investment and should be treated as such.

We may not like our partners all the time, and that’s okay as long as our commitment to act out of love doesn’t waiver. This means even on our partners worst days, we still have a foundational level of respect, loyalty, and appreciation for the value they add to our lives. If you don’t have the capacity or desire to show up for your significant other in this way, it’s probably time to reevaluate the relationship.

Heyyyy my fellow singles! I understand how Valentine’s Day can be a bit bittersweet for many people including myself. It...
02/07/2022

Heyyyy my fellow singles! I understand how Valentine’s Day can be a bit bittersweet for many people including myself. It’s always nice to see beautiful displays of love on this holiday but sometimes it can be a little sad knowing you aren’t the object of someone’s affection.

Love is a beautiful thing and self love is just as important so I wanted to give you guys some tips to help you have the best day possible. If all the relationship and love on your timeline is triggering for you, then take some time away from social media for the day. And remember, just because you are alone doesn’t mean you have to be lonely.

Wishing beautiful, passionate, requited, and deserving love and relationships on all my single folks this year 🤞🏾❤️

Burn out is the overwhelming stress and stress related symptoms that result from a person overextending beyond their men...
01/13/2022

Burn out is the overwhelming stress and stress related symptoms that result from a person overextending beyond their mental, emotional, and physical limits. Burn out at a job or in a position can be a huge indication that a shift needs to happen and the longer we ignore or put off making that shift, the more we suffer.

What keeps us in certain jobs for far too long is the fear of living without financial security. It’s unfortunate that for the majority of us our mental health in many ways is tied to financial stability, not realizing that the ways in which we go about obtaining that financial ability can negatively affect our mental health. It can be a double-edged sword. Even through working long hours, being subjected to mistreatment, and taking on more responsibility, a lot of these companies never truly appreciate your value and see each employee as replaceable. If you don’t hold boundaries within the workplace, they will bleed you dry.

Most of us stop ourselves from starting just because we think our lanes are overly saturated. We see many others doing what we’d like to be doing and think that there is no room. We fear the unknown so much that we will choose to live in mediocrity because it is comfortable or it’s safe. I’m here to tell you that your gifts, skills, and talents will be fruitful and will always make room for you if you invest in them.

I always encourage people to consider how what they do for a living or where they work affects their mental health. The ...
01/13/2022

I always encourage people to consider how what they do for a living or where they work affects their mental health. The quickest way to experience depressive symptoms is by getting up every day to go to a job you hate. While we don’t always have the luxury of just quitting because you know, bills, one of the worst feelings is that of being stuck. We must be intentional about making plans and goals to move ourselves out of these spaces and doing what’s necessary to make the shift. Sometimes we have to take a leap of faith.

When clients come to me with symptoms of depression and anxiety, one of the first things I do is assess their work environment and circumstances. We spend more time at work than we do anywhere else, and that space has a lot of influence over our mood on a day-to-day basis. I’ve literally gone through periods of depression that were triggered by my disdain of my job and my work environment. I’ve had periods of debilitating anxiety from just having to go into work, check my email, and see the s**t ton of problems and things that needed to be done.

There is a lot to be learned when our vibrations are low because we gain a better understanding of what we needs to change.

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