03/04/2026
Our beloved Bonita Mae Cole Lyles (Bonnie), age 82, left this life on February 3rd, 2026 at her home in Chicago, IL.
Bonnie was born on May 15th, 1943 to Lois and Ernest Cole in Wyalusing, Pennsylvania. She was the eldest of seven siblings (Sam, Nancy, Ernest, Jim, Jeff and Tim Cole). She graduated from Wyalusing Valley High School in 1961, and then attended LockHaven State College to study teaching. Bonnie’s cousin, Mary Lou, was teaching at a school back home, and got Bonnie her very first teaching job. She then received a scholarship to study abroad in Spain for six months. She lived there with Catholic nuns which she often mentioned having hated. Upon her return, Bonnie moved to Chicago to attend the University of Illinois, studying “boring old literature” in her words. She got hired by Chicago Public Schools and started teaching at Harrison High School where she met many life-long friends and “the love of her life”, her husband John Lyles. Bonnie worked the remainder of her career with CPS teaching Spanish. She was a CTU active member and took her children to protest in support of the Union starting very young. Bonnie adopted her first child Kyla (then Lyles) in 1986 and her second child Shianne in 1989. She was loving, kind, and took much pride in being a mother.
Bonnie leaves behind her husband of 42 years John E. Lyles, daughters, Kyla (Michael) Henderson and Shianne Lyles. Cherished grandchildren Kordell Coleman, JaNyah Henderson, Kendrick Lyles-Henderson, Hayden Lyles Guzman, Malia Henderson and Calixto Lyles-Puente as well as her step daughters, nieces, nephews, friends and chosen family held dear along the way.
Bonnie was known as a beautiful, intelligent, vibrant and open person, who loved to travel, experience the arts and spend time with her family. She was curious about the world around her, an advocate for social justice and dedicated her life to educating others. We are all better for knowing her and it was a privilege to be loved by her. We will miss her forever!
A memorial visitation will take place on Saturday March 7, 2026 from 1:00 PM until 7:00 PM, with a service at 3:00 PM at Midtown Funeral Home and Cremation Options, 3918 W. Irving Park Rd., Chicago.
Arrangements by Midtown Funeral Home and Cremation Options, 773.654.3744, www.midtownfunerals.com
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