Cappy Silver LCSW

02/22/2019

Learn about my extremely private practice and reach out to me when you're ready, please.

01/02/2018

This is the time of year when you might not know where to turn for help. Here's where you start.

Begin therapy with Cappy SIlver Chicago-based therapist for emotional, relationship, and mental issues for men, women, LGBTQ community, and more.

09/07/2017

Feeling off? Can't quite put your finger on what's wrong? Not sure where to start? Start here... with Cappy Silver LCSW.

http://www.cappysilver.com/how-to-begin-therapy/

01/27/2017

Experiment In order to keep from freaking out about the seeming enormity of beginning therapy, you can conceptualize it as a process of inquiry, familiarization, or even an experiment. Accordingly, you can meet two or three therapists and see who you like the most. This does not include promises that might be made to you re: guaranteed results. The #1 consideration for choosing a therapist is: " Do I feel that I am in the presence of wisdom?” This is, of course, not easy to ascertain, but is often discernible with intuitive consideration. [ 32 more words ]

http://www.cappysilver.com/2017/01/06/experiment/

Experiment In order to keep from freaking out about the seeming enormity of beginning therapy, you can conceptualize it as a process of inquiry, familiarization, or even an experiment. Accordingly, you can meet two or three therapists and see who you like the most. This does not include promises tha...

01/27/2017

Privacy There are a multitude of reasons to go into therapy. You’ve got smalls, mediums, larges, gargantuans, and everything in between. But there is no lame reason. Remember, everything you say is private, so unless you tell someone, nobody is ever going to know what you’re looking into; thus judgments about the content cannot form. People who denigrate therapy may very well be downplaying their own need for help. Forget all of this. Just take care of yourself.

http://www.cappysilver.com/2017/01/04/privacy/

Privacy There are a multitude of reasons to go into therapy. You’ve got smalls, mediums, larges, gargantuans, and everything in between. But there is no lame reason. Remember, everything you say is private, so unless you tell someone, nobody is ever going to know what you’re looking into; thus judgm...

01/27/2017

It's Time Over the course of a year- - any year- - individuals and couples will have the oft repeated, internal thought," If I’m not better by New Year’s, I will get help.” It is now New Year’s. Going to therapy isn’t a sign of weakness or failure; it is simply necessary and advisable at times.

http://www.cappysilver.com/2017/01/01/its-time/

It’s Time Over the course of a year- – any year- – individuals and couples will have the oft repeated, internal thought,” If I’m not better by New Year’s, I will get help.” It is now New Year’s.  Going to therapy isn’t a sign of weakness or failure; it is …

12/16/2016

Info coming in January 2017!

07/29/2016

When people come to see me for therapy, they present with all manner of distress and innumerable types and blends of issues. Relationship and parenting problems, dissatisfaction at work, and the vestiges of difficult childhoods are some of the common presenting problems. We identify and approach c...

07/29/2016

by Cappy Silver, LCSW 1. There Is Something Very Wrong With You If You Are Not Married With Children By The Time You Are 40. Before declaring the unmarried person as a pathological disaster area one needs to consider the uniqueness of her/his familial history, personality, experiences, and cultural…

07/29/2016

by Cappy Silver, LCSW If you are examining your past relationships to see why they haven’t worked, have your eye on someone and are wondering whether to explore a relationship, are already in a relationship and having your doubts, read on … 1. Make a list of many traits that you desire in a partner....