Child Therapy Chicago

02/05/2026

For years, the “gold standard” of digital parenting was the kitchen timer. We set 60 minutes for Minecraft, 30 minutes for YouTube, and when the buzzer went off, the device went away. But as we’ve seen heading into 2026, rigid rules often create a “forbidden fruit” effect or, worse, leave kids without the very skill they need most: the ability to listen to their own brains.

So, what do we do? We’re moving away from universal time limits and toward Bio-Individual Responses. This means teaching kids that “screen time” isn’t a single thing—it’s a physical and emotional experience that changes depending on what they are doing and how their unique nervous system reacts.

Why Hard Rules Often Fail
When we use external controls (like app blockers or timers) exclusively, we are doing the “regulating” for our kids. While this keeps them safe in the short term, it doesn’t build their internal muscle for self-regulation. Just as we want kids to recognize when they are feeling “hangry” or overwhelmed by a loud room, we want them to recognize when a digital loop is making them feel “fried.”

Read about the Bio-Individual Approach to helping kids self-regulate around technology at www.ChildTherapyChicago.com

01/09/2026

Play as a Window to the Soul: How Therapists Listen to What Children Can’t Yet Say

Children are constantly learning to navigate a complex world and, sometimes, the feelings and challenges they face feel too overwhelming or too abstract for words. As adults, we often have the vocabulary and emotional awareness to articulate our struggles. But what about a child who is experiencing anxiety, sadness, or anger without the means to express it verbally? This is where play therapy becomes a powerful and invaluable tool.

At Child Therapy Chicago, we understand that play isn’t just about fun and games, it’s about communication and connection; it’s a child’s natural language. Through play, children can process experiences, explore emotions, and communicate their inner world in a way that feels safe and natural to them. Think of a child building a towering block structure to represent their sense of power, or gently tending to a doll to mirror their desire for care and comfort. Every action, every choice of toy, every narrative they create in their play offers a unique glimpse into their feelings, fears, and hopes.

Read more at https://www.childtherapychicago.com/2026/01/play-as-window-to-soul-how-therapists.html

12/11/2025

The best way to help a child or teen who is struggling with big feelings is simply to pause. Giving yourself a moment to be calm and reminding yourself that this behavior has meaning allows you to respond with compassion and understanding. This is the key to helping your kiddo regulate their emotions.

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12/04/2025

Raising a deeply feeling kid is both a gift and a challenge.

Their emotions arrive in full color—bright joys, big worries, tender hearts.

And behind every intense moment is something meaningful: a need, a fear, a wish, a story they can’t yet put into words.

When we stop trying to “manage” the behavior and start trying to understand the feeling beneath it, everything softens.

Deeply feeling kids don’t need fixing.

They need connection, curiosity, and a steady adult to help them carry all that depth.

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11/20/2025

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11/07/2025

For parents of children and teens with big feelings…

Parents often bring their kids to therapy feeling frustrated, confused, or worn down by their child or teen’s behavior. The emotional outbursts, the withdrawal, the snarkiness or refusal to talk — it can all feel overwhelming. In those moments, it’s natural to reach for strategies: What consequence will work? How can I stop the yelling? What can I say to get through?

But from a psychodynamic perspective, we start somewhere deeper.

We begin with understanding — because behavior, especially intense behavior, is almost always a messenger.

Read more at www.childtherapychicago.com

10/09/2025

🧠 Building Emotional Resilience in Children
Emotional regulation and resilience are skills that can be developed with patience, time, and support. This week, we’re sharing actionable tips to help your child build emotional strength. 💪💚

💬 Emotional Regulation Explained
Kids experience intense emotions, and that’s normal. Emotional regulation is learning to manage those feelings effectively.
With your guidance, kids can develop emotional resilience. 🌊
Remember, it’s a journey.

🌱 Why It Matters
When kids develop emotional regulation skills, they:
✅ Manage stress more effectively
✅ Build stronger, healthier relationships
✅ Develop lifelong resilience
It’s a valuable gift.

👣 Supporting Emotional Growth
Here are 4 ways to help:
1️⃣ Label and acknowledge emotions
2️⃣ Model healthy emotional regulation
3️⃣ Establish routines
4️⃣ Focus on effort
Small actions, significant impact. 💚

💛 You’re Doing Great
You don’t need to be perfect. Your presence, empathy, and consistency are key. Own up to mistakes!
You’re supporting your child’s emotional growth.

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03/04/2025

Ways to nurture an authentic self in pre-teen girls:

1. Encourage self-reflection
2. Promote open communication
3. Foster independence
4. Model authenticity
5. Encourage positive peer relationships
6. Support interests and passions
7.Address media influences