03/25/2026
😂 Please know in advance, that if you read this and burst out laughing, thinking "that explains everything! "... I forgive you (maybe it's true! 😂)
As you may know, winters in Chicago often earn their reputation for SNOWFALL ❄️❄️❄️
🚙 One frigid morning, my young mom bundled her two toddlers into the car. This was way before car seats, or laws about seatbelts, so she simply dropped us like two packages in our puffy snowsuits on the back seat of the station wagon.
💨 As she tells it, she was driving the familiar route to nursery school when she felt a cool breeze on the back of her neck.
Turning around, she notices I am missing, and exclaims, "where's Jeanne?!"
"She left", my sister replied succinctly.
At this point in the story, everyone is laughing, and my sister is smiling, feeling witty.
🥶 Apparently, the back door to the family wagon had only been frozen shut, and in the morning sunshine, it thawed, and opened as my mom took a curve.
☃️ She describes circling back to find me sitting safely on a snowbank, protected by the large drifts and my extra puffy snowsuit.
She hurriedly bundles me back in the car and continues on with her day.
I have no conscious memory of this at all.
To me, it's just family folklore.
(and strangely the story is shared more to highlight how funny my sister is, so droll, and I am simply a missing package, easily retrieved and dusted off ❄️ 📦 🤷🏻♀️)
🚙But through the years, at random moments, I have these flashes of anxiety in the car, this sudden whoosh in my heart, and I check that the door is locked.
It is such a quick flash of fear, and so out of the blue, I typically roll my eyes at myself, and think "weird, what's that about."
🙄 Because this old story is always shared as "soooooo funny", it has simply never occurred to me to "heal" it.
That there is a trauma imprint that is still wired into my nervous system. 😬 🤦🏻♀️
I'm adding that to the list of past events to clear this April!
What "funny" stories about you still circulate at family gatherings? They may cause chuckles today, but do you notice any lingering echoes in your life?
I encourage you to reflect,
and then join me for Peace by Piece.
A healing program to clear your nervous system of old stories (you know the ones).
🌝 We start April 1, with the energy of the big, beautiful, full Pink Moon; details below, or DM to chat.