03/17/2026
☘️ I think almost every Chicagoan who chooses to, feels at least like an honorary Irish person today - the city is awash in green, in beer 🍺 and in brogues. 😊
☘️☘️I have Irish lineage on both sides of my family, and one Father’s Day my insight into my heritage took an unexpected up level.
I had decided that morning to stop by my father’s gravesite (Calvary in Evanston) and as I approached the family plot, I was surprised to noticed two other people wandering among the headstones.
Smiling I called out, “I am here for him, and for my grandmother”, pointing at two plots, “what brings you here?”
To my delight I discovered that I was now chatting with one of my father’s cousins. As my father passed away when I was not even two years old, his side of the family is a bit mysterious to me, and very quickly this nice woman identified the links between us and the various family members we were surrounded by.
I was fascinated by her easy descriptions of family members and we quickly agreed to have lunch together.
As it so happens, I was at the time, deep in training that uses hypnosis to illuminate and heal ancestral lineage.
This is a popular field in psychology now as more and more we realize that living through a trauma like many of our ancestors did literally changes DNA, which is then passed on to their descendants.
Leaving a home country for a new one is no small feat; even as we sugarcoat it with the phrase “seeking a better life”, there is tremendous loss involved and great stress in adapting to a new culture.
On this day, when so many gather to celebrate the Irish contribution to the United States, I encourage you to reflect on your own heritage - the individuals whose courage brought you here. Because one of the nicest things about this healing work is not only do we do the inner work to release the trauma pattern you may have inherited, we reclaim the gifts of our ancestors, too. Their courage, resilience, adaptability, strength… these qualities run through you, too. 😊
This is such a fascinating subject, I am happy to chat it through with you, and guide you through a healing session. Among many wonderful things, it has given me a sense of Belonging to my lineage - of having relatives beyond my immediate family. And that brings a depth of peace to my heart that is hard to describe.�
☘️❤️