02/18/2026
There has been A LOT to react to in the news recently. And I’ve had a lot of reactions when I see people make ignorant comments about who is performing at the Super Bowl Halftime show or immigration. I’ve certainly had to practice the power of the PAUSE.
Pausing is not the same as neglecting. Taking time to regulate before responding is often the most responsible choice you can make.
We live in a culture that praises urgency — quick replies, instant opinions, immediate decisions. But our nervous systems aren’t designed to function well under constant pressure to react. When we respond from overwhelm, we’re more likely to speak from fear, defensiveness, or exhaustion rather than from intention.
A pause is not avoidance.
It’s awareness.
It’s self-trust.
It’s choosing to respond instead of react.
Slowing down gives your body time to settle, your thoughts time to organize, and your values time to lead. It allows you to show up in a way that is aligned, grounded, and true — instead of rushed or regretful.
You are allowed to move at a pace that supports clarity, not just reactivity. You are allowed to take a breath before answering. You are allowed to honor your timing.
💛 Gentle reflection:
What shifts when you give yourself permission to pause before responding?
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