11/26/2025
One of the hardest yet most precious truths I’ve come to learn, both personally and professionally, is that TWO things can be true at once. Similarly, two sentiments can coexist in our minds.
For example, you are allowed to feel heartbroken by the world and still hold space for hope. Both can be true at once. It’s when we look at the world in binary terms that we start to feel a bit more stuck and confused.
It’s possible to feel despair about injustice, fear about the future, exhaustion from carrying so much — AND also feel gratitude for community, love for your people, and belief in possibility.
Your emotional complexity is not a contradiction. It’s a sign of your humanity.
So as we walk into the holiday season weighed down by expectations, the cooler temperatures and fatigue from our packed calendars, here is a reminder to let ALL parts of you exist — the hurting, the hopeful, the tired, the resilient.
You can be tired AND grateful.
You can be sad AND hopeful.
You can be busy AND make room for rest.
You can be grieving AND appreciative.
You can feel despair AND hold onto possibility.
Drop a ❤️ if this resonates or share this with someone who might need this reminder today.
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