05/28/2020
There is nothing I can say about the recent racial violence that occurred on Memorial Day that can’t be better said by our black and brown leaders, educators and activists. Find them, read them and support their work. Below are a few recommendations, but reach out for more: cargle
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My love goes out to my friends and clients of color during this time of grief, fear and anger. I know my words mean nothing unless I follow it up with action. As someone who dedicates herself to the awareness and treatment of trauma it is not lost on me how important it is that I acknowledge the violence and generational trauma that has affected you, your families, friends and communities in a myriad of ways and that your voices of pain and injustice are heard. I understand that to be worthy of you, I must work actively every day to name and dismantle the systems of white supremacy in our society and within myself. Above all else, I want to be a safe person and provide a safe business so that I can support your healing in whatever way you choose to trust me. ..
To my white clients, friends and family members: Do the work. Continue to do the work. Educate yourself and your children about racial bias and our system of white supremacy using the resources above. Listen more. Talk less. Be curious about finding out more. Face your demons. Acknowledge your mistakes. Call out ignorance and the violence you witness from other white people. Check your privilege. Lean into feeling uncomfortable. This work, this is healing work, and it is not easy. It’s not supposed to be. But I promise you whatever you’re feeling pales in comparison to the violence committed against black and brown bodies everyday in this country. It’s the least we can do. ..