11/25/2025
This may sound strange…
I am grateful for all the pain, grief and hardships I’ve had in my life.
Don’t get me wrong, I would give back all the chronic pain, challenges, anxiety, loss, if I magically could.
But that’s not how life works.
So I learned long ago to embrace the bad with the good. And over time, I saw things differently.
I can appreciate the beauty of the world, whether I’m traveling to new places, or taking the train to work. The little moments of community and kindness that we witness in our neighborhoods. The ability to get up each morning and tackle the new day with an open heart. The fact that I make my living by helping people.
I could be bitter. I could stay in bed when life is hard and my body rebels. I could wonder ‘why me’ and focus on all the things I can’t do.
But that wouldn’t be much of a life.
I choose healing over hurting. Helping over being helpless. And moving forward over staying stuck.
All it took was a momentary pause. A little shift. A new perspective. And that created an entirely new outlook on life.
Gratitude is transformative.
So, yes, I am grateful for all the pain, grief and hardships I’ve had in my life.