04/05/2026
What destroyed modern dating? The disturbing lack of mutual respect and consideration, the epidemic of narcissism, delusions of grandeur and entitlement, all the one-sided expectations of women who have too little of value to offer in a relationship, at least not much that men actually care about. With other words, yes, most self-respecting, psychologically sane men would rather even die alone, in peace, than deal with all the exhausting drama, attitude and hypocrisy, especially given the ever-diminishing rewards. Simply put, too many modern women are just not worth the effort/trouble. And the ones who care about more than themselves, who are at least pleasant to be around, smart and do naturally bring something of intrinsic value, are usually already taken, in a happy, healthy relationship.
This, of course, isn't meant to suggest that all men are worthy and easy to deal with either, but they are at least still usually less demanding, easier creatures to please and are much more willing to adapt and accept reasonable compromises, IF(!!!) the reward is worth it - and that's ironically the conversation most women are not ready for. In the meantime, overinspired, mediocre women with one-sided expectations of near-perfection, with a misguided, strong conviction that they would know everything better, but with no interest in even wanting to try to actually, really understand men, will continue to waste their lives away making Instagram videos, for the sake of shallow instant validation, complaining about a situation for which they themselves are mostly responsible.