Tim Quinn, MFT

02/02/2026

Beautiful!

That said, the wisdom that he talks about is only possible if you have a partner who's willing to do his or her part. None of this applies to an abusive or narcissistic partner who won't take any responsibility. 

01/31/2026

01/24/2026

It’s easy to make your partner the problem.

You tell yourself, “They’re just selfish.” “They’re just unaffectionate.” “They just don’t get it.”

And maybe some of that is true.

But as long as you stay focused on who your partner is, you can’t see what you might be doing to keep the pattern alive.

The trick is to shift from blame to accountability.

Not “It’s all my fault,” but rather “What’s my part in this dynamic?”

Because every relationship is a system – two people in a dance they’ve both helped choreograph.

You can’t change how your partner moves by controlling or criticizing them. But you can change the dance between you by changing your own steps.

When one person shifts, it creates space for the whole relationship to change and repair.

01/23/2026

🤷😂

01/20/2026

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01/11/2026

Pretty good explanation of the Four Horsemen--and some things to do to manage them.

Psychologists say these four behaviors are powerful predictors of relationship breakdown.

01/11/2026