02/27/2026
Survivor Tips from Judy Brillhart, Breast Cancer & Multiple Myeloma Survivor
I was diagnosed with multiple myeloma at the end of 2013. My Enloe Health oncologist had trained at Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center which is an internationally recognized leader in multiple myeloma, so I felt confident in my care from the beginning. I had my stem cell harvest done at Stanford. I’ve also faced breast cancer, which was successfully treated with surgery and radiation here at Enloe.
For me, the most important thing has been accepting and giving support. I’ve learned to lean on caregivers more than ever and that has become essential. I also find purpose in supporting others. My husband and I helped start the Sacramento Valley Multiple Myeloma Support Group years ago. Being with people who’ve lived with this disease for 20 years gives me hope. And I love talking with “newbies” on Zoom to reassure them that their life is not over. I’m always amazed by new treatments and how far things have come.
I also rely on a couple of group texts. One is with my four “Krazy Kousins,” who help with rides and practical things, and another with my close friends. When something’s going on I send out a text update and someone always responds. They check in, remind me when to say no and show up when I need help. I truly rely on my wonderful caregivers for everything.
My church group has been another lifeline. I’m part of a healing circle where we meet monthly and share honestly no matter how unpleasant the details. They really know what’s going on with me. I also find comfort in my quilt group, and quilting continues to uplift me.
Neuropathy has been my biggest challenge. I’ve tried every medication and even a spinal stimulator, but nothing has fully worked. I get oncology massages and acupuncture, I’m exploring acupressure, and I’ve completed PT and now OT.
I see the pain nurse in Symptom Management because the pain is often constant and can be very frustrating.
I’ve found I need more than medical treatments to cope. Spiritual counseling has helped and my counselor always seems to understand exactly where I am the moment we connect. I also meet with Brid Power in Symptom Management for counseling and attend Shifting My Perception sessions, which focus on strategies for living with serious illness. I especially enjoy the sessions of Forest Therapy in Bidwell Park.
What have I learned from having cancer? It’s simply a part of my life. I don’t dwell on it. I do what I can. When my feet hit the floor in the morning, they hurt, but I can still get through my day. My mindset is to have the best life I can with what I’ve been given.
