11/07/2025
When we experience a tragic loss, especially in children, we may be met with shock, disbelief and overwhelming grief and heartbreak. It can be confusing, overwhelming and uncertainty as a parent. Questioning what we could have done different. And when our children ask questions or are trying to navigate it, we can feel stuck, worried about saying the "right" or "wrong" thing.
Processing grief and shock can look different for everyone. One of the best ways to process big events is connection, feeling it in our body and talking it through. Allowing this space for your child.
When we approach conversations from from a compassionate, caring way; we can offer space for healing. It's ok to not have the perfect words. It's ok to sit with your child and be the grounded presence they need. Offering the support for your child as they navigate this experience.
If we need the words, offering gentle support and questions can let your child know it is ok to talk about it.
"I heard about the loss, how you are feeling about what happened?"
"I'm here for you."
"What's coming up for you?"
"What can I do for you in this moment?"
“It’s okay to feel sad, confused, angry, or even nothing right now.”
"What questions do you have?"
Together, you can process the loss. If you or your child could benefit from extra support, we are here for you. You are not alone in this.
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