11/09/2021
“Mommy, it worked!” Bella exclaimed with delight in her voice as she pressed this rock back into my hand at school pickup today.
Allow me to give you some backstory. Early this morning I was woken up by the sound of Bella crying in her room. When I went in to see what was wrong, I found her perched on the side of her bed looking distressed. With tears in her eyes, she told me: “I’m the Rainbow of the Week and that means today I have to talk about my poster in front of the whole class. I don’t want to go to school!”
She was so worried that she wouldn’t be able to read the words she wrote down on her “All About Me Poster” we filled out over the weekend together that her fear was paralyzing.
My 5:45am, pre-coffee brain solution? A “courage rock.” 🪨
Over my years of teaching yoga, students have gifted me various beautiful crystals that I keep on display next to my essential oils diffuser, because I’m granola like that. So I took one and as I handed it to Bella I told her it was my “courage rock” that I use at times when I’m feeling scared, but need to be brave — that it will give her an “extra boost of courage” if she needs it, so she should keep it in her pocket.
While I don’t actually have a habit of carrying around crystals in my pockets, the more I thought about it throughout the day I realized that I too have my own version of “courage rocks.”
They are the people in my corner who support me unconditionally. Who I am able to call on when I’m feeling overwhelmed or battling self-doubt or when life has just flat knocked me on my t**h.
They are the people that will encourage you to keep going even when it feels impossible and who will gently remind you of the inner strength you already carry with you.
Bella didn’t need that rock to today to magically summon courage. She just needed something to remind her that she’s already strong.
Find your people who will remind you that you are capable of hard things ❤️