02/15/2026
Just because you said yes to a smartphone, video game, social media app, devices in the bedroom, etc does not mean you can't change your mind.
Are you regretting giving your 6th grader a smartphone? You can hit the pause button or you can limit how much your kid is using the phone by removing the internet browser, disabling the App Store and removing games and social media. Wait until 8th has a great guide on their blog on how to do this with an iPhone.
Are you battling with your kid about gaming constantly? Take a clean break. Pack away the gaming console and talk to your kid about why he needs a reset.
Are you cringing every time you think about your kid on Snapchat, Instragram or TikTok? You can change your mind. You are not stuck with this decision. If your family is not ready to cut a social media app entirely, consider severely limiting when and where your child can use it. Limit it to no more than 30 minutes a day. You can do this in parental controls on your kid's phone.
Parents, our kids need us to be the parent! I know you don't enjoy saying
No
Not yet
We are not doing that.
We are taking a break.
Our family is different.
I know you often want to be the friend or at the very least the quasi cool mom or dad.
Our kids need heathy boundaries enforced by loving parents. So, don't be afraid to change your mind!
Some good tech parameters to consider:
✅ Delay the smartphone until at least the end of 8th grade with the pledge! If you need to get in touch before, consider a basic phone. Wait until 8th has some featured on their website. Waituntil8th.org
✅ Start slowly when you do introduce a smartphone. Remove access to the internet browser and App Store.
✅ Delay social media until 16+.
✅ Keep devices out of the bedroom especially at night
You've got this parents 🙌
The Wait Until 8th pledge is thriving in communities across the country—from the East Coast to the West Coast, in both public and private schools, in big cities and small towns. Parents everywhere are linking arms to delay smartphones and give childhood back to kids.