Assisted Living Locators West Inland Empire

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Our experienced, compassionate team of experts is here to help you explore and understand elder care options, information, and resources...and use them to make life better for you and your loved one. Founded by Angela Olea in 2003, Assisted Living Locators has quickly established themselves as a leader in the industry. You never need to worry about a “one size fits all” solution. Instead, you can rest assured that the communities and homes that we recommend have been pre-screened and personally matched to your loved one’s needs. What’s more, the professionals at Assisted Living Locators will be at your side every step of the
way, advocating for you to ensure that everyone will feel comfortable and “at home” with the
decision you make.

Thanksgiving to New Year’s: Traveling With Mom or Dad by Plane, Train, Car… or CruiseHere are the habits that make peak ...
11/12/2025

Thanksgiving to New Year’s: Traveling With Mom or Dad by Plane, Train, Car… or Cruise

Here are the habits that make peak season easier:
• Book nonstop when you can and give yourselves extra time
• Keep meds, a printed med list, and IDs in your carry-on/personal bag
• Pack layers, a small blanket, spare glasses, hearing-aid batteries
• Hydrate, bring protein snacks, and stick to usual routines
• Mobility breaks: aisle seats on flights, Red Cap help for trains, stretch stops every 60–90 minutes if driving
• Cruising? Choose an accessible cabin near elevators, submit dietary/special-needs forms early, pick “easy/accessible” excursions, and confirm refrigeration for meds if needed. Travel insurance that covers medical care at sea is worth it.

If the trip feels like too much, I can line up short-term respite or local care so everyone still gets time together.
— Vince Bonnemere | Assisted Living Locators West Inland Empire
📞 909-284-8888 | 🌐 westinlandempire.assistedlivinglocators.com
The Right Care Changes Everything. Let Us Help You Find It.

11/05/2025

Tension’s normal. Confusion is fixable. Use this 20-minute agenda and stick to the words in quotes.

1) Open (1 minute)

“We’re all here because we love Mom. Let’s stay focused on what helps her this month.”

2) Ground rules (30 seconds)

“One person speaks at a time.”

“We’ll capture decisions in writing before we hang up.”

3) What’s true today (3 minutes)

“Here are the facts from the last 2 weeks: meds, falls, bills, mood, appetite, sleep.”

“Anything to correct, not debate?”

4) Define the goal (2 minutes)

“By the end of this call, we’ll agree on 1–2 next steps for safety and sanity.”

5) Roles and reality (4 minutes)

“Let’s name who can do what this week: rides, meals, meds, bills, check-ins.”

“If you can’t, say so now. No guilt, just clarity.”

6) Options on the table (5 minutes)

“Option A: In-home support X hours.”

“Option B: Tour assisted living/memory care.”

“Option C: Short-term respite while we reassess.”

“What are your concerns with each?”

7) Decide next steps (3 minutes)

“We agree to: [action], by [date], owned by [name].”

“We’ll regroup on [date] for a 10-minute check-in.”

Helpful phrases

“You might be right. Let’s test it for a week.”

“I hear you. Here’s what I can commit to.”

“Let’s separate what’s urgent from what’s important.”

Phrases to retire

“You never help.” → “What can you commit to this week?”

“That won’t work.” → “What would make it workable?”

Need a neutral guide and real options?
Send me “CHECKLIST” and I’ll DM you my Family Zoom Prep Checklist. Want hands-on help? I’ll facilitate your sibling Zoom, line up private-pay options, and book same-week tours so you don’t lose momentum.

Assisted Living Locators – West Inland Empire
Vince Bonnemere | Call/Text 909-284-8888
Serving The West Inland Empire including Rancho Cucamonga, Claremont, Chino, Chino Hills, Ontario and Beyond!
“The Right Care Changes Everything. Let Us Help You Find It.”
Private-pay families; independent, assisted, and memory care.

11/04/2025

You’re doing a lot. Let’s make this part easy.

Flu shot (annual)
Best timing: Sept–Nov, but it still helps later in the season.
Why: Cuts risk of severe illness and missed work days.
Who: Everyone 6 months+, especially adults 65+, caregivers, and anyone with asthma, heart, lung, or diabetes.
COVID-19 (2025/26 updated vaccine)
Best timing: As soon as you can this fall/winter.
Why: Refreshes protection against the latest strains and reduces hospitalizations.
Who: Everyone eligible, with extra urgency for adults 65+, people with chronic conditions, and caregivers who visit multiple households.
RSV (Respiratory Syncytial Virus)
Why: RSV can be serious for older adults and for newborns.
Who should consider it:
Adults 60+ after a quick chat with their clinician, especially if there are heart, lung, immune, or frailty issues.
Pregnancy (late second to third trimester): maternal RSV vaccination may protect newborns.
If you live with or frequently visit a newborn or a frail older adult, ask your provider what’s best for your situation.
Make it easy checklist
Pick a pharmacy or clinic near work.
Bring your ID and insurance card.
Ask about getting flu and COVID at the same visit.
Snap a photo of Mom’s and Dad’s vaccine cards so everyone’s on the same page.
Put a reminder for spring boosters or your next annual shot in your calendar.
Quick safety note: This is general info, not medical advice. If your parent has allergies, recent infections, is on chemo or high-dose steroids, or just left the hospital, confirm timing with their clinician.
Vince Bonnemere | Assisted Living Locators – West Inland Empire
“The Right Care Changes Everything. Let Us Help You Find It.”
Call/Text: 909-284-8888 | Serving Rancho Cucamonga, Claremont, Chino, Chino Hills, and Ontario

11/03/2025

National Family Caregivers Month: Say Yes to Help
If you’re caring for a parent while working and raising kids, you’re carrying a lot. Saying yes to help isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom.

I’ll help you:
• Create a 48-hour shortlist of appropriate, available communities
• Understand costs and what fits your family’s goals
• Arrange tours and handle the details so you can breathe
• Explore respite stays when you need a short reset

I serve private-pay families across the West Inland Empire. If you’re ready for a clearer plan, message me.
Vince Bonnemere | Assisted Living Locators – West Inland Empire
“The Right Care Changes Everything. Let Us Help You Find It.”
Call/Text: 909-284-8888

10/30/2025

Are ready for a 911 call in the middle of the night? Is Your Loved One?

That’s why I recommend Tendercard. It’s a free QR card for caregivers. First responders scan it and instantly see the essentials: medications, allergies, conditions, and emergency contacts. One card lives on the fridge for home emergencies. The other stays in the wallet for anywhere else. When it’s scanned, you get an alert so you know the right info is in the right hands.

Setup takes just a few minutes: add meds and allergies, confirm your emergency contacts, print or place the cards, and you’re done. No guessing. No scrambling through files. Just fast, accurate info when seconds matter.

If you’re caring for a parent and want practical tools that actually reduce stress, DM me and I’ll help you get a Tendercard today.

The Right Care Changes Everything — Let Us Help You Find It.”

10/27/2025

If you’re working, raising kids, and helping a parent, here’s the quiet part said simply:

• Love doesn’t fix logistics. Calendars and med systems do.
• No one magically coordinates this. You’re the project manager.
• Decision fatigue is real. Standardize small stuff to save your energy.
• Sibling “fairness” is a myth. Assign roles that fit each person.
• Guilt isn’t a plan. Boundaries are.
• Safety beats sentiment. If the house can’t keep up, it’s time to rethink.
• Money has to be named early. Private pay needs a plan.
• Perfect doesn’t exist. Choose the best trade-offs and move forward.
• Work will notice. Talk to HR before it becomes a problem.
• Discharge isn’t the finish line. Plan the handoff.
• Build a bench. If you can’t name two backups, you need help.

Try this this month:
Make a one-page Care Snapshot, book a med review, ask the pharmacist about interactions and packaging, and block your HR benefits. Write your two red lines. Add one support: respite stay, adult day care, meal help, or med packs.

When the load gets heavy, I help families compare real options, line up vetted tours, and coordinate move-ins. Private pay only.

The Right Care Changes Everything. Let Us Help You Find It.
Vince Bonnemere | Assisted Living Locators – West Inland Empire
Serving Claremont, Upland, Montclair, Rancho Cucamonga, Chino, Chino Hills, Ontario
Call/Text 909-284-8888

10/21/2025

You love your parents. You don’t want to micromanage them. You do want to catch small issues before they become big ones. Here are simple ways to keep tabs with respect.

If you see them regularly
• Do a quick fridge check: meds list, allergies, appointments, emergency contacts. Snap a photo so everyone’s aligned.
• Ask the pharmacy for 90-day refills and med-sync so everything renews together.
• Safety sweep the house: loose rugs, dim lights, slippery bath. Add motion lights and non-slip mats.
• Keep a big wall calendar at home and a shared digital one for the family.
• Bring all meds to the P*P once a year for a simple brown-bag review.

If you live across the country
• Get proxy access to health portals to see labs, notes, and referrals.
• Turn on banking alerts for low balance or missed payments.
• Set up recurring deliveries for groceries and prescriptions.
• Build a trusted neighbor circle for quick “all good” texts.
• Use simple tech that actually gets used: video doorbell, lamp timers, large-button phone, pill dispenser with reminders.
• Informed Delivery or mail scanning to catch insurance letters or cancellations.
• Keep a steady check-in cadence: short calls the same days each week.

Paperwork that prevents panic
HIPAA releases, healthcare directive, and durable POA. Keep copies where people can actually find them.

If you’re thinking, “We need a smarter plan,” that’s what I help families build: private-pay options, vetted local communities, and practical support that fits real life.

Vince Bonnemere | Assisted Living Locators – West Inland Empire
“The Right Care Changes Everything. Let Us Help You Find It.”
Call/Text: 909-284-8888
Serving Rancho Cucamonga, Claremont, Chino, Chino Hills, Ontario • Nationwide network available

Comment CHECKLIST and I’ll DM you a one-page printable to share with siblings.

10/21/2025

What To Look For In a Good Medicare Broker

Open Enrollment runs October 15–December 7. If Medicare decisions are on your plate this season, here’s a quick checklist to find the right helper:

Must-haves

Licensed and independent. Works with multiple carriers, not just one.

Needs-first approach. Starts with your doctors, meds, budget, and travel plans before showing options.

Total cost review. Explains premiums, deductibles, copays, and the annual max out-of-pocket in plain English.

Medication check. Runs your exact prescriptions through Part D or MAPD plans to compare real costs.

Network clarity. Confirms your P*P, specialists, and preferred hospital are in-network.

Caregiver aware. Understands home health, rehab/SNF stays, and what happens after a hospitalization.

Yearly review. Offers an annual check-in because formularies and networks change.

Paperwork support. Helps with enrollments, special enrollment periods, and prior authorizations if needed.

Nice-to-haves

Local knowledge of plans that actually perform well here in the Inland Empire

Clear comparisons in writing, not just a phone pitch

Accessibility after enrollment when questions come up

Red flags

Pushes one plan without asking about your doctors or meds

Won’t show side-by-side comparisons

Rushes you to “sign today” or offers gifts to choose a plan

If you don’t have a trusted broker, I can refer you to vetted, independent Medicare pros who serve our area and speak caregiver. Send me a message and I’ll connect you.

The Right Care Changes Everything. Let Us Help You Find It.

How Sleep Affects Your Loved One with Dementia (Caregiver’s View)1. When they don’t sleep well at night, you’ll see it t...
10/21/2025

How Sleep Affects Your Loved One with Dementia (Caregiver’s View)

1. When they don’t sleep well at night, you’ll see it the next day.

They may be more forgetful, more confused, or slower to respond.

They might ask the same questions over and over or seem extra disoriented.

Simple tasks that were doable yesterday can suddenly feel impossible.

2. Nighttime struggles spill into the daytime.

If they’re up a lot at night, you’re probably up too.

They may nap a lot during the day, which makes it even harder for them to sleep that night — a tough cycle to break.

You might notice “sundowning”: restlessness, pacing, or agitation late in the day.

3. Poor sleep makes behaviors harder.

They may be irritable, anxious, or quick to anger after a rough night.

Wandering, arguing, or refusing care often get worse when they’re tired.

You may feel like you’re “losing ground” with routines that worked fine before.

4. Good sleep makes for better days.

When they sleep more soundly, you’ll likely see:

Calmer mood

Fewer outbursts

More alertness in conversation

Easier caregiving moments (bathing, meals, dressing)

5. Things you can try (without medications):

Keep a regular bedtime and wake-up time — even on weekends.

Get them into morning sunlight or sit near a bright window early in the day.

Limit naps — if they must nap, keep it short (20–30 min).

Encourage movement or gentle exercise during the day.

Make the bedroom calm and safe: cool temperature, nightlight for orientation, reduce noise.

Avoid caffeine, alcohol, and heavy meals close to bedtime.

6. Red flags to watch for:

Loud snoring or gasping for breath at night (possible sleep apnea).

Extreme daytime sleepiness even after a full night’s rest.

Sudden worsening of memory, mood, or confusion that seems tied to poor sleep.

If you notice these, it’s worth talking with their doctor, since treatable sleep issues (like apnea or restless legs) can make dementia symptoms much worse.

Bottom line for caregivers:
When your loved one sleeps better, you both have better days. Protecting their sleep protects their brain — and your own well-being.

If you’re juggling work, kids, and a parent’s care, this is the five-minute checklist that actually helps.1) Know the di...
10/20/2025

If you’re juggling work, kids, and a parent’s care, this is the five-minute checklist that actually helps.

1) Know the difference

Advance Directive: names a health care agent and outlines wishes for future care.

POLST: medical orders for people with serious illness or fragility; guides what to do now in an emergency (CPR, hospitalization, treatments).

2) Get them signed and accessible

Use plain language versions, review with your parent and their clinician.

Revisit after any big change: new diagnosis, hospitalization, move to assisted living.

3) Who actually needs copies?

Healthcare agent and one backup

Primary care and key specialists (upload to the patient portal)

Hospital system your parent is most likely to use

Senior living or rehab community (front desk and nurse’s station)

Home: one set in a clearly labeled folder, plus a POLST on the fridge for EMS

Wallet/phone: ICE contact with “Advance Directive on file” and agent’s number

4) Quick sanity checks

Names and numbers current?

Preferences clear about CPR, hospitalization, and comfort-focused care?

Everyone who has a copy knows where it is and what it means?

If you want a simple California-ready packet and a 10-minute walkthrough, I can share a template and make sure the right people get the right documents.

The Right Care Changes Everything. Let Us Help You Find It.
— Vince Bonnemere, Assisted Living Locators West Inland Empire

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