02/13/2026
Yesterday, I took the kids to Suson Park, and we spent hours just enjoying the day together. While we were there, I found myself thinking back to those first few months after having the twins.
I remember feeling completely overwhelmed, wondering how I was ever going to manage leaving the house with all three kids on my own. Back then, it honestly felt impossible; I was sure I’d always need someone else there to help. I worried so much about all the things that seemed too hard, all the challenges that felt beyond me.
It’s taken a lot of practice, and more than a year, but now we have our own little adventures all the time. I’ve learned which grocery stores only have one-cart stores, and every outing feels a bit easier than the last. Parenting really is all about trial and error.
There are so many things you only figure out by stumbling through them, learning as you go. I’ve found that it’s never perfect, but with time and patience, I’ve found my own way.