02/25/2026
There’s a common misconception that oppositions in astrology are nothing more than a tug‑of‑war—an endless friction that never resolves. On the surface, that can appear true, but the reality is far more nuanced, especially depending on which planets are involved.
Take Mercury, for example.
When Mercury is in opposition, it doesn’t usually get drowned out by the other planet’s energy. If anything, Mercury becomes sharper, louder, and more activated.
People with Mercury oppositions often describe their mind as if it’s sitting in a debate club, trying to make sense of competing truths being shouted across the room. Growth absolutely happens for them—but it tends to come through tension, contrast, or situations that force negotiation. Their self‑awareness is earned through a mind that’s constantly in dialogue with itself.
It’s common to hear them say things like:
- “I can see both sides.”
- “My mind never shuts off.”
- “I argue with myself a lot.”
If you’re someone who gets defensive quickly, or you find yourself over‑explaining because you’ve often felt misunderstood, I’d bet good money you have a Mercury opposition somewhere in your chart.
This urge to clarify, justify, or challenge assumptions is a signature of the aspect.
I bring all this up because we’re heading into Mercury retrograde for the first time this year. It might be helpful to look at your chart and see what’s sitting across the table from Mercury. Instead of viewing it as a combatant, imagine it as two friends sitting down to hash out why each one believes they’re right. That shift alone can change how you navigate the retrograde entirely.
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