10/07/2025
Play isn’t always easy for children. When things don’t go their way, they can become frustrated quickly.
In those moments, it helps to remember that frustration is a natural part of learning, not a failure.
Children are still developing the ability to manage big feelings, especially when they care about the activity or want to succeed.
Here’s a simple way to support your child during play if they do be come frustrated:
Pause before fixing.
Take a breath and give your child a moment to notice what’s happening.
Name what you see.
Say something like, “That didn’t go how you wanted,” or “You worked hard on that tower and it fell down.” Naming helps children feel understood.
Model calm.
You could take a slow exhale, shake out your hands, or stretch together before trying again. Small physical resets help children learn that they can recover from frustration and continue playing.
Over time, this process builds emotional flexibility. Children start to trust that mistakes or disappointments can be repaired, and that connection remains even when things don’t go perfectly.
If your child is struggling with any of these skills, our LEGO®-Based Therapy group might be a good fit.
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