01/16/2026
“I think many of us operate from the myth that every mistake needs a consequence. That if we don't "do something," our kids will think bad behavior is okay.
But here's what I'm here to tell you - Sometimes the right response to a mistake is NO consequence. Just connection. Just emotional support. Just a plan for next time.
👉🏽Your child forgot their jacket and froze at recess? That's the lesson.
✅Your child hid something and couldn't sleep that night? That's the consequence.
✅Your child broke something and immediately cried? They already got it.
The cultural script says you MUST punish or they'll think it's okay but that script is wrong.
When natural consequences or genuine remorse already exist, adding punishment just buries the lesson under shame.”
- The Mom Psychologist
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