03/10/2026
It's okay to not want visitors straight away ♥️
Visitors often mean well, but they can quickly become overwhelming in the early days. As you and your baby recover and learn to feed together, extra company can make it harder to notice cues and find your rhythm.
It’s okay to wait on visitors until you feel more settled, and it’s okay to set boundaries around who visits, when, and for how long.
Did you set rules for visitors in those early days? If so, what did you find most helpful in balancing the desire of others to help and your need for space?
[Image: A mother holding her newborn infant. Text: Nobody told me...You might feel overwhelmed by visitors. Posting visiting hours and setting firm rules for visitors can help you feel less frazzled by everyone wanting to meet the new baby.]