Wildflower Breastfeeding

Wildflower Breastfeeding IBCLC, PMH-C, CEIM: providing expert breastfeeding help, mental health support, and infant massage.
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04/08/2026

This is your sign to skip the scratch mitts and swaddles when it's time to nurse. In addition to helping to boost your oxytocin levels (and your milk flow), babies also use their hands to help position themselves as they are rooting and latching. Giving your baby full use of their hands while they are nestled on your chest/breast helps them to tap into their instinctive rooting, latching and feeding behaviours - plus it helps them protect their airway while nursing by enabling them to push away if needed.

👋Find your baby's hands are getting in the way of their latch? Pregnant and wondering what you can do before your baby arrives to make things easier? Nursing an older baby and wondering how to help encourage them to use their hands more gently? We're here to help! Visit the link in our bio to learn more about our free Virtual Latch & Learn sessions, In Person support options or to register for our FREE Prenatal Lactation workshop "Me Breastfeed". 📲🥰

04/07/2026

“Just give a pacifier.”

I’ve heard that more times than I can count.
Usually said like I’m making things harder on myself
by not taking the “easier” option.

But here’s what people don’t understand…

Babies don’t just suck for food.
They suck to regulate.

That repetitive sucking
literally helps calm their nervous system,
slow their heart rate,
and lower cortisol.

It’s not random.
It’s not a bad habit.
It’s biology.

So when my baby comfort nurses to fall asleep…
that’s not them “using me.”

That’s their body doing exactly what it was designed to do
to feel safe enough to sleep.

And I get it.

A pacifier is easier for other people.

It makes babies quieter.
More independent.
Less “needy.”

But my baby isn’t here to be convenient.

So no…
I’m not going to replace something biological
with something artificial
just to make it easier for everyone else.

If my baby needs comfort to sleep,
they’re going to get it.

If you’ve ever been told
“just give a pacifier”
when your baby clearly needed you…

I want to hear it 👇

PSA: You don’t have to store a freezer-full of breast milk (like you might see on social media). Most people only need a...
04/04/2026

PSA: You don’t have to store a freezer-full of breast milk (like you might see on social media). Most people only need a small freezer stash (if ANY)…..just a couple days’ worth of milk for emergencies or returning to work. Having a massive stockpile is just not necessary! Hope this gives someone peace of mind today. Drop any questions below.


04/03/2026

The Nurture Revolution is here! The Tipping point is coming 💜💜💜💜

04/02/2026

✨️Seek glimmers.✨️

03/30/2026

Sunday evening and we're going to play a little game of

8/9 on the Bingo card here (although the dancing was a little wonky), and I don't have a journal! Full-on rest day today, other than a little mental health walk, we've been binging movies and a new medical series. How many of these have you managed today? Did you have any you'd like to add to the list?

Making something: Stitching is planned for this evening.
Give yourself a break: Take-out for tea tonight!
Connect with nature: Managed to fit in some birdwatching this morning.

How about you?

03/28/2026

Nobody told me I’d become
a snack bar
a hydration station
and emotional support human
all at the same time
but here we are...

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03/27/2026

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“They’re just using you as a pacifier.”

No… they’re not.

But it’s wild how comfortable people are saying that to a mother.

Because what they’re really saying is:

your baby shouldn’t need you this much.

And that’s where they’re wrong.

Babies are literally designed to need their mother.

Not just for food
but for regulation
for comfort
for safety
for survival.

So when a baby nurses for more than “just feeding”

that’s not a bad habit.

That’s biology.

What’s actually backwards
is expecting a newborn to self soothe
like they’re supposed to function independently.

They’re not “using” you.
They’re responding to you.
They’re wired for you.
They’re built for you.

And if that makes people uncomfortable
that says more about what we’ve normalized
than what’s actually natural.

If you’ve ever been told this…
I want to know 👇
Because moms are tired of being made to feel like meeting their baby’s needs is a problem.

Breast milk is a living fluid containing germ-killing substances, healthy bacteria, antibodies, white blood cells, antim...
03/26/2026

Breast milk is a living fluid containing germ-killing substances, healthy bacteria, antibodies, white blood cells, antimicrobials, and proteins that offer protection against bacteria and viruses.
The live bacteria in breast milk influences your baby’s gut health. Exclusive breastfeeding colonizes your baby’s gut with healthy bacteria that have lifelong benefits, like helping develop resilience against conditions such as diabetes, obesity and metabolic syndrome.

03/25/2026

I need to say this because it’s quietly hurting a lot of moms…

That freezer stash you keep seeing all over social media?

That is not the standard.
That is not the baseline.
That is not what most breastfeeding looks like.

That is the exception.

And I’m not saying that to tear those moms down.
Some women do overproduce.
Some women donate insane amounts of milk.
I personally know one who literally holds a world record for it.

But think about that for a second…

A world record.

You don’t win a world record for something that’s common.

So why are we letting something rare convince everyday moms that their completely normal supply isn’t enough?

Because here’s what I’m seeing happen…

Moms pumping 2–4 ounces
Looking at their baby
Looking at social media
And thinking:

“Something must be wrong with me.”

So they start to spiral.
They second guess their body.
They assume their baby isn’t getting enough.

And then they quit…
Not because their body failed them
But because comparison did.

Let me be very clear:

A “small” pump does not mean a small supply.
A lack of a freezer stash does not mean you’re failing.
And your worth as a mother is not measured in ounces.

Your baby doesn’t need a deep freezer full of milk.

Your baby needs you.

And most of the time…
what your body is making in real time
is exactly what your baby needs.

Stop letting highlight reels rewrite your reality.

You are not behind.
You are not lacking.
You are not doing it wrong.

You’re just seeing the rarest version
and thinking it’s the rule.

03/23/2026

Human milk is more than food. It's a living starter culture.

A new study in Nature Communications (2025) confirms what lactation supporters have long suspected: human milk is the primary seeding event for a baby's lifelong gut health.

Researchers tracked the exact path of bacteria from parent to baby. Here are the key findings:

Direct Strain Transfer: The exact same bacterial strains were present in both the parent's milk and the infant's gut. This is a direct hand-off of beneficial bacteria like Bifidobacterium longum.

The Retrograde Secret: Oral bacteria were found in milk samples, supporting the theory that breastfeeding is a two-way street. When a baby suckles, their saliva flows back into the breast, potentially signaling what antibodies the baby needs.

The Founder Effect: Microbes passed through milk in the first weeks are metabolic pioneers. They build a stable gut environment from scratch, creating a foundation that protects the baby for months.

Every drop of milk is a biological software update for your baby's immune system. It's not just about calories. It's about colonizing their world with the tools they need to thrive.

We aren't just supporting feeding. We are supporting the assembly of a human being's internal ecosystem.

If you're looking for a speaker on lactation science and evidence-based perinatal care, send me a message or visit the link in my bio.

Ferretti, P., Allert, M., Johnson, K.E. et al. Assembly of the infant gut microbiome and resistome are linked to bacterial strains in mother’s milk. Nat Commun 16, 11536 (2025). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41467-025-66497-y

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03/16/2026

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What are some factors that made breastfeeding possible & positive for you? Some of the essentials look like:

- Prenatal education
- Partner support
- Community support
- Extended leave from work
- Expert help when challenges arise (ongoing)
- Peer and family support from others who have successfully breastfed
- Making short & long-term goals and celebrating when you reach them

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What is an IBCLC?

What is an IBCLC (Lactation Consultant) and how can they help me with breastfeeding?

An International Board Certified Lactation Consultant is a health care professional who specializes in the clinical management of breastfeeding. An IBCLC can work in a wide variety of health care settings such as hospitals, pediatric offices, public health clinics, and private practice. They work with new families to help them meet their breastfeeding goals. They are experienced in a wide variety of complex breastfeeding situations, and competent to assist mothers with establishing and sustaining breastfeeding, even in the midst of difficulties and high-risk situations that can arise.

The first IBCLC that I ever met was a dear friend and colleague named Jacquie. Up until that point, I had no idea that such a certification existed. Jacquie was warm, funny, and knew EVERYTHING about breastfeeding. I marveled at her ability to get almost any baby to latch. Jacquie would send a nursing mom on her way with confidence and the tools needed to be successful at breastfeeding. I became a Certified Lactation Educator in 2008. With Jacquie as my mentor, I went on to do more training and became an IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant) in 2011. I’ve been guiding and assisting mom and baby pairs to breastfeed for 10 years!

Through my work with some incredible women and babies in the last 10 years, I have learned that most women want to breastfeed. The support of family and friends as well as help from the medical community is absolutely key to their breastfeeding success. Becoming educated on how to breastfeed, what to expect, and learning how to get a good latch during the prenatal period is crucial. It is a bit more challenging if expectant families wait to learn this information after the baby is born.