11/13/2025
If you love a man — a husband, a father, a brother, a son, or a friend — this matters.
Every November we hear the same messages: “Just talk.” “Break the silence.” “Open up.”
But a major national investigation found something completely different:
91% of men who died by su***de did seek help.
They reached out. They talked. They showed up. And most were labeled “low risk.”
Men aren’t dying because they refuse to open up.
They’re dying because the systems we tell them to use weren’t built for the way men process fear, responsibility, or identity loss.
Men don’t need more awareness months. They need support that actually works. They need tools. They need capability. They need a path forward.
Here’s something I think a lot of men have been waiting for someone to finally say out loud.
Read the full piece → https://kurtperkins.substack.com/p/mens-mental-health-awareness-cute