12/19/2025
🧠Everyone’s talking about nervous system regulation lately.
And don’t get me wrong — it matters.
But here’s the part that keeps getting skipped:
A regulated nervous system doesn’t automatically mean a healthy, capable body.
If you lived in fight-or-flight (or shutdown) for years, your body adapted to survive — not to thrive.�
That adaptation leaves a metabolic mess behind.
So when someone says:�“I’m calmer now… but I’m still exhausted.”
That’s not failure.�That’s physiology.
Regulation restores safety.�Metabolism restores capacity.
Calm without capacity looks like:�• Grounded but foggy�• Relaxed but weak�• Better — but not resilient
I wrote a piece on what actually comes after nervous system regulation — and why feeling safe is just the beginning.
🔗 https://kurtperkins.substack.com/p/regulated-nervous-systemnow-what
Calm isn’t the goal. ☺️�Capacity is. 💪
The goal was never permanent recovery mode. The goal was resilience.