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Heart to Heart Counseling Center Heart to Heart Counseling Center: Where Healing Begins

02/19/2026

Infidelity creates some of the deepest emotional pain a person can experience. Dr. Doug Weiss explains how betrayal trauma impacts the brain, emotional health, identity, and sense of safety, drawing from decades of clinical work with individuals and couples. Adults navigating the shock of disclosure, trust loss, or emotional withdrawal will find psychological clarity and reassurance that their pain has real, measurable causes.

Discover how betrayal trauma reshapes the past, disrupts present functioning, and destabilizes the future, often creating symptoms similar to PTSD. When it comes to restoring emotional health and intimacy, it's crucial to understand the role that therapy, trauma recovery tools, neuromodulation, support groups, and intensive programs play.

This conversation provides grounded insight into compulsive behaviors, the brain’s trauma response, and the path toward relationship restoration or personal growth after betrayal.

For counseling and support, contact Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708 or email heart2heart@xc.org to connect with a certified therapist who can help you start your healing journey. For accelerated recovery, book a 3-Day or 5-Day Intensive to get a lot of specialized help in a short amount of time.

Order the Partner Betrayal Trauma book or watch the video to better understand your trauma and pain and how to start healing:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-video-download/

If you are a man who has experienced betrayal, you will find the tools and information in the Betrayed Man video useful and validating: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/the-betrayed-man-video-download-2/

To get your copy of “Why Men Lie” click here:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/why-men-lie-video-download/

Visit our Partner Betrayal Trauma website for more resources on this topic: https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/

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If you’ve been carrying emotional pain, relationship stress, or feeling stuck in patterns that don’t seem to change, ple...
02/18/2026

If you’ve been carrying emotional pain, relationship stress, or feeling stuck in patterns that don’t seem to change, please hear this: you are not alone. And your story is not over. Healing is still possible.

This is your last chance. Our Winter Sale on digital downloads and hard-copy resources created by Dr. Doug Weiss ends soon. These tools are designed to help you gain clarity, rebuild strength, and take practical steps toward lasting growth.

If you’ve been thinking about starting, this is a meaningful moment to take that step.

🗓 Sale ends February 18th at midnight.
Explore what’s available: https://www.drdougweiss.com/store/

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SPECIAL INTENSIVE OFFER!Our intensives are designed to help you accomplish months or years of counseling in just a few f...
02/16/2026

SPECIAL INTENSIVE OFFER!

Our intensives are designed to help you accomplish months or years of counseling in just a few focused days. Instead of waiting weeks between sessions, you receive concentrated, personalized care from our experienced clinical team. You walk away with clarity, practical tools, and a structured recovery plan tailored specifically to you and your relationship.

For a limited time, we are offering $500 off any intensive booked by February 27, 2026. (The intensive can occur after February, but it just needs to be booked in the month of February).

This is an opportunity to take decisive action toward healing, growth, and restoration while also receiving significant savings.

Openings are limited.

If you are ready to stop circling the same issues and start moving forward with intention, call 719-278-3708 to learn more or secure your spot.

02/16/2026

If you’re struggling with p**n and your partner doesn’t know yet, you may be carrying a heavy mix of secrecy, shame, and constant anxiety about being found out. Living in a secret world that is slowly taking a toll on not only your emotional and mental health, but your relationship as well. In this video, s*xual recovery expert Dr. Doug Weiss addresses one of the most difficult, but most important steps in healing: choosing to tell your spouse the truth before discovery forces your p**n addiction out into the open.

Secrets will always be found out eventually, especially when it comes to addictions. While it may be terrifying to come clean, it’s a true turning point toward real freedom and recovery. You'll receive general principles and insight on where to have the conversation, what to say, and why both partners need support and guidance after the truth comes out.

Disclosure is not the end but the beginning of healing. Start your journey of freedom and recovery, not only restoring your own life, but the relationship that has been damaged by p**nography.

For counseling and support, contact Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708 or email heart2heart@xc.org to connect with a certified therapist who can help you start your healing journey. For accelerated recovery, book a 3-Day or 5-Day Intensive to get a lot of specialized help in a short amount of time.

To get started with s*x addiction recovery, check out the Final Freedom book and 101 Freedom Exercises:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/s*x-addiction-2/
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/101-freedom-exercises-for-s*x-addiction/

For female s*x addiction recovery, start with the She Has a Secret ebook and Secret Solutions workbook:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/she-has-a-secret-understanding-female-s*xual-addiction-ebook/
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/secret-solutions-ebook/

For partner resources, there's the Partner Betrayal Trauma video for women or the Betrayed Man for men:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-video-download/
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/the-betrayed-man-video-download-2/

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02/11/2026

Our intensives incorporate therapy, groups, and therapeutic teachings to accelerate your healing process. To book an intensive, call us at 719-278-3708.

After years of infidelity, s*x addiction, and intimacy anorexia, Nathaniel and Heather’s marriage was hanging by a thread. The pain of betrayal and the weight of addiction had left them feeling hopeless and alone. But when they reached out to Heart to Heart Counseling Center and began the Intensive Counseling Program, everything changed.

In this powerful testimony, they open up about the process of healing, from disclosure and forgiveness to rebuilding trust and intimacy. Five years after their intensive, Nathaniel and Heather share how through receiving professional guidance and support, they were able to experience true freedom and restoration in their marriage.

If you or your spouse is struggling with s*x addiction, p**n addiction, infidelity, or intimacy anorexia, there is hope. Healing and recovery are possible.

Have you had a powerful experience at our intensives and want to share your story? Email our office at heart2heart@xc.org

Visit our Partner Betrayal Trauma website for more resources on this topic: https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/

For information and resources for s*x addiction, check out https://www.s*xaddict.com/

Learn more about Intimacy Anorexia, click here: https://intimacyanorexia.com/

To learn more about our counseling services, visit: https://www.drdougweiss.com/relationship-and-addiction-counseling/

For more information about our intensive program to get a lot of help in recovering from S*x Addiction, Partner Betrayal Trauma, or Intimacy Anorexia, visit: https://www.drdougweiss.com/intensives/

To join one of our many support groups, visit the following links:
Phone Groups: https://www.drdougweiss.com/groups/
Free Facebook Groups: https://www.drdougweiss.com/facebook-groups/

Visit the American Association for S*x Addiction Therapy to find a certified therapist and other helpful resources: https://aasat.org/

To sign up for our free weekly newsletter and get information on our helpful resources and services, go to: https://www.drdougweiss.com/ #:~:text=SUBSCRIBE%20TO%20OUR%20NEWSLETTER

If you’ve been carrying emotional pain, relationship stress, or feeling stuck in patterns that won’t change, you’re not ...
02/11/2026

If you’ve been carrying emotional pain, relationship stress, or feeling stuck in patterns that won’t change, you’re not alone. And this isn’t the end of your story. Healing is possible.

This winter, we’re offering a special sale on digital downloads and hard-copy resources created by Dr. Doug Weiss designed to help you gain clarity, rebuild strength, and take practical steps toward lasting growth.

Take a step toward hope and a healthier way forward.

February 11th–18th
Explore what’s available: https://www.drdougweiss.com/store/

02/09/2026

Discovering the truth about your relationship can feel uncomfortable and scary, but avoiding it can cost you far more in the long run. In this episode, psychologist and s*x addiction expert Dr. Doug Weiss joins Carla Shellis on the Really Feminine Podcast to address the difficult reality of how nearly 50% of men struggle with p**nography, ma********on, or compulsive s*xual behaviors, yet most never seek help simply because no one asks them.

If you sense something is “off” in your relationship, this conversation encourages you to pursue clarity, honesty, and safety. You’ll learn why when a husband refuses to protect the marriage, a woman may need to ask direct questions and seek out the truth.

Many betrayed women fear discovering the truth because of the pain it brings and how it will impact the relationship. But ignoring the possibility of p**n use, hidden behaviors, or an affair allows the problem and the betrayal trauma to grow. In our s*xually stimulated society, the hidden seed of lust can easily lead to infidelity in time.

If something is happening in your relationship, you do not have to navigate it alone. Call Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708 to connect with a professional and compassionate therapist who will provide a safe space for you to be heard and offer the support and guidance needed to manage the emotional turmoil and achieve true healing.

Read the Final Freedom Book here: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/s*x-addiction-2/

Click here to get the Clean Book: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/s*xual-integrity/

If you are a betrayed woman, you may find the Partners - Healing From His Addiction validating and helpful: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partners-healing-book/

If you are struggling with betrayal trauma in your relationship, check out the Partner Betrayal Trauma book: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/

Visit our Partner Betrayal Trauma website for more resources on this topic: https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/

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02/05/2026

Discovering that your partner had an affair is deeply traumatic. It affects your spirit, soul, and body, as well as how you see your past, present, and future. For many people, the pain doesn’t just fade away, but it causes triggers to manifest. As an expert in partner betrayal trauma, Dr. Doug Weiss explains why betrayed partners can struggle with triggers months or even years after the affair. You’ll learn why having triggers is a normal part of the trauma, the different types of triggers, and the importance of getting help and support for yourself.

If you’re battling intrusive thoughts, emotional turmoil, or physical reactions long after the affair was discovered, this conversation will help you to understand what’s happening, validate what you’ve experienced, and show you how you can start healing. It’s not your fault that you were betrayed or triggered, but it is your responsibility to heal. You don’t have to walk this path alone and there is real support and hope for you.

For counseling and support, contact Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708 or email heart2heart@xc.org to connect with a certified therapist who can help you start your healing journey. For accelerated recovery, book a 3-Day or 5-Day Intensive to get a lot of specialized help in a short amount of time.

Buy the Partner Betrayal Trauma book or watch the video to better understand your trauma and pain and how to start healing: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-video-download/

For healing exercises, check out the Partner Betrayal Trauma workbook: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-workbook/

If you are a man who has experienced betrayal, you will find the tools and information in the Betrayed Man video useful and validating: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/the-betrayed-man-video-download-2/

To learn more about how to manage and heal from triggers, get the Triggered video here: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/triggered-video-download/

Check out the Helping Her Heal set here:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/helping-her-heal-download-set/

Visit our Partner Betrayal Trauma website for more resources on this topic: https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/

02/02/2026

When infidelity happens in a relationship, the outcome is far more destructive and painful than anyone expected. In this video, Dr. Doug Weiss and Carla Shellis from the Really Feminine Podcast discuss the harsh reality of affairs, betrayal trauma, and the thought process behind the “other woman” or the affair partner.

Discover why female s*x addiction is rising in our culture and how past abuse and neglect can push some women to use seduction, fantasy, and s*xual behavior as a way to medicate deep internal pain. Dr. Weiss also break down the severe trauma, confusion, and emotional destruction that cheating brings into a marriage.

Affairs are never worth it. They start small, but the damage is runs deep and far-reaching. Still, there is hope. With honesty, accountability, recovery work, and the right therapeutic structure, both men and women can heal from infidelity and rebuild their marriage.

To schedule a session with a counselor certified in s*xual recovery and betrayal trauma, call 719-278-3708. We offer support groups, recovery materials, and a 3- or 5-day intensive program that provides a lot of personalized counseling over a short period.

Learn more about female s*x addiction recovery with the She Has A Secret ebook and the Secret Solutions workbook:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/she-has-a-secret-understanding-female-s*xual-addiction-ebook/
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/secret-solutions-ebook/

Check out the Intrigue Addiction video here:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/intrigue-addiction-download/

Buy the Forgiveness For Everyone book here:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/forgiveness-for-everyone-book/
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/forgiveness-for-everyone-video-download/

01/30/2026

Betrayal trauma in a relationship is one of the deepest wounds a woman can experience. In this conversation from the Really Feminine Podcast with Carla Shellis, psychologist Dr. Doug Weiss shares my personal journey of helping female partners of s*x addicts find real validation, clarity, and hope.

For decades, Dr. Weiss has advocated for betrayed women in the field of counseling when few others would. He discusses why s*x addiction and infidelity destroy emotional safety, how addiction keeps the addict emotionally immature, and why partners need support, not blame. You’ll hear how Heart to Heart Counseling Center’s therapy programs, including our intensives, provide:

- the addict with a structured, proven recovery plan
- the partner with validation and healing tools
- the couple with tools to rebuild trust, including polygraphs and accountability groups

If you’re a woman facing betrayal trauma, broken trust, or the chaos of a partner’s compulsive s*xual behavior, you are not alone and healing is possible.

Contact Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708 and we’ll schedule you with a professional therapist who understands betrayal trauma to support your recovery journey with compassion and proven clinical tools. To accelerate your healing even further, ask about our 3 and 5-day intensive program, where individuals and couples receive focused, in-depth therapy designed to help you make months of progress in just a few days.

Visit our Partner Betrayal Trauma website for more resources on this topic: https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/

For information and resources for s*x addiction, check out https://www.s*xaddict.com/

To learn more about our counseling services, visit: https://www.drdougweiss.com/relationship-and-addiction-counseling/


01/28/2026

When your relationship has been impacted by s*x addiction, infidelity, intimacy anorexia, or partner betrayal trauma, the pain can feel overwhelming. You may feel stuck, confused, or unsure how to heal. If that’s where you are, you are not alone, and there is help available.

At Heart to Heart Counseling Center, our mission is simple: to heal the brokenhearted. For over three decades, our team of certified therapists has walked alongside thousands of individuals, couples, and families facing relationship challenges, betrayal trauma, s*x addiction recovery, intimacy anorexia, s*xless marriage, and other personal issues. We provide a safe, validating space where your story is heard, your pain is honored, and your healing is supported.

Your situation is unique. That’s why our therapists create a tailored and structured approach that addresses your current struggles while equipping you with the tools needed to manage them and prevent future problems. Through our counseling sessions, support groups, and proven recovery resources, our clients are able to move from crisis to clarity, from devastation to hope and restoration.

One of our most effective programs is our 3-Day and 5-Day Intensives, which can create the space for true transformation for both individuals and couples. Through this focused counseling experience, your therapist will develop a personal recovery plan for you and your spouse, as well as a relationship recovery plan, helping to promote long-term healing in a short time.

With the right guidance, support, and tools, healing is not only possible — it’s within reach. We’re here to walk with you every step of the way.

To schedule your intensive or learn more about our relationship counseling, infidelity recovery, s*x addiction treatment, intimacy anorexia recovery, and partner betrayal trauma support, call our office at 719-278-3708 or email heart2heart@xc.org

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01/26/2026

Why do so many people keep going back to p**n even when they genuinely want to stop? In this video, psychologist Dr. Doug Weiss explains why willpower alone fails and why shame, secrecy, and lack of structure keep people trapped in the cycle of relapse. Drawing from 40 years of clinical experience and personal recovery, I break down the difference between wishing for change and actually wanting freedom — and what real recovery requires.

If you’ve tried to quit, prayed harder, promised yourself “this is the last time,” and still found yourself going back, this conversation will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface and why recovery requires a plan, accountability, and support. Freedom is possible, but it doesn’t happen by accident.

For counseling and support, contact Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708 or email heart2heart@xc.org to connect with a certified therapist who can help you start your healing journey. For accelerated recovery, book a 3-Day or 5-Day Intensive to get a lot of specialized help in a short amount of time.

Check out our top s*x/p**n addiction recovery materials below:
Final Freedom Book: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/s*x-addiction-2/
101 Freedom Exercises workbook: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/101-freedom-exercises-for-s*x-addiction/

For information and resources for s*x addiction, check out https://www.s*xaddict.com/

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About Heart to Heart

Do you feel broken, trapped or betrayed by s*xual addiction or intimacy anorexia? You are not alone. We are here to help you and will guide you through your relationship crisis. Your road to healing and new life starts at Heart to Heart Counseling Center.

Heart to Heart Counseling Center specializes in s*xual addiction counseling, treating intimacy anorexia and supporting partners. We are the premiere relationship counseling center in Colorado Springs, Colorado.

For over thirty years, we have helped relationships heal after dealing with s*x addiction and intimacy anorexia, brought husbands and wives back together and helped couples find their intimacy again. We change lives.

Dr. Weiss, the founder and executive director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center, is a nationally recognized psychologist and s*xual addiction expert who coined the term intimacy anorexia almost a decade ago. Dr. Weiss has dedicated his life to help others understand s*xual addiction and intimacy anorexia, provided quality training for counselors around the world and continues to use his expertise to heal marriages.