12/26/2025
The Post-Holiday Crash
There’s a particular moment that tends to arrive after the holidays, often right after the last guest leaves or the house finally grows quiet, when your body releases a long, involuntary exhale you didn’t even realize you’d been holding. It is the sudden drop that follows weeks of movement, masking, coordinating, and trying to create something meaningful for the people around you. Many describe this feeling as an emotional hangover, and it deserves to be named for what it is: completely normal.
Our bodies keep track of more than stress; they keep track of effort. Even the joyful moments take energy. The laughter, the gatherings, the complicated family dynamics, the sensory overwhelm, the new traditions, the old memories, the constant stimulation of the season, each one adds a layer to what we are carrying. Once the noise fades, the nervous system finally has space to register everything at once, and that registration often feels like fatigue, emotional intensity, or a sudden desire to withdraw.
If today feels heavy or strangely hollow, it isn’t a sign that you’ve done anything wrong. It’s a sign that your body is recalibrating after weeks of being “on,” attentive, engaged, or simply trying to get through. You may notice tiredness that arrives out of nowhere, emotions rising without a clear cause, or an urge to sit still and ground yourself. Your body isn’t being sensitive or dramatic; it is returning to balance after a season that asked a great deal of you.
Let yourself land softly. Drink water. Rest without explanation. Move at the pace your body chooses rather than the one the world demands. Say no to anything that feels like too much. This is not a failure of resilience; it is the natural settling that happens when the holidays end and your system has room to breathe again.
You are allowed to take this time to ease back into yourself.