01/30/2026
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Herbert Dudley Arinder, Sr.
92, Columbia
Funeral services will be held at 11:00 am on Wednesday, February 4, 2026 at Hathorn Funeral Home in Columbia for Herbert Dudley Arinder, Sr., 92, of Columbia, who passed away Thursday, January 29, 2026. Interment will be at the Woodlawn Cemetery in Columbia. Rev. Jason Webb and Rev. Jimmy Bryant will officiate the services.
The Arinder family will receive guests on Wednesday morning from 9:00 am up until the hour of service at 11:00 am at Hathorn Funeral Home.
Herbert was born on February 12, 1933, in the Improve Community. A son of the late Elzey and Sallie Bolin Arinder, he grew up as one of twelve siblings. Herbert answered the call of duty and served our nation faithfully in the United States Navy during the Korean War, where he served with distinction as a Gunner. Upon returning home, he became a pillar of the local workforce, dedicated to his career at Kenny Moore’s gas station for over 30 years and later serving as a member of the maintenance crew for the Marion County Courthouse. A man of deep faith and fellowship, Herbert was a devoted member of Emmanuel Baptist Church and was highly active in fraternal organizations, including Carley Lodge #562, the Hattiesburg Scottish Rite 32nd Degree KCCH, and the Shriners. In his leisure time, he found great joy in the quiet challenge of word search puzzles, but his greatest happiness came from the time he spent with his beloved siblings.
He was preceded in death by his Father, Elzey Arinder; his Mother, Sallie Bolin Arinder; first Wife, Johnnie Mae Bullock Arinder; his second Wife, Frances Harrell Arinder; five Sisters, Barbara Randall, Lottie Kendrick, Jeanette Reagan, Thelma Hutson, Elsie Mae Arinder; six Brothers, Cleo Arinders, Charles Arinder, Aubra Arinder, Lanny Arinder, Howard Arinder, Verlon Arinder; and one Step-Son, Dale Mullins.
He is survived by one Son, Herbert Arinder, Jr.; two Daughters, Pauline Carson (Kenny), Christie Pounds (Stacey); two Step-Sons, Shelby Morgan, David Turnage; two Step-Daughters, Patsy Barber, Judy Malek; five Grandchildren, Kim Miller, Dustin Arinder (Mandy), Whitney Cox, P.J. Polk, Tori Polk Austin; and nine Great Grandchildren.
Mr. Arinder will be carried to his final place of rest by those honored to serve as Pallbearers; they include Dustin Arinder, P.J. Polk, Matt McCain, Brandon Prine, David McCain, and Cass Barnes. Honorary Pallbearers will be Brantley Stringer, Cooper Lane Cox, Hendrix Austin, and Abel Polk.
In lieu of flowers of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the General Fund of Emmanuel Baptist Church, 1940 Old Hwy 35 N, Columbia, MS 39429, or to the Benevolent Fund of Bunker Hill Baptist Church, 63 Bunker Hill Rd, Columbia, MS 39429. The family wishes to express special thanks to Hazel McGowen and Beverly Gholar for the five years of dedicated care they offered Herbert.
Hathorn Funeral Home in Columbia is in charge of the arrangements. Friends can sign an online guest register book at hathornfuneralhome.com.