04/17/2026
Katherine Mallory May Hopkins
Katherine Mallory May Hopkins died at home peacefully and surrounded by family on April 16. She was 83. She is survived by her beloved husband, Theodore Jervey Hopkins, Jr.; children, Katherine English Hopkins, Emily Gayle Hopkins, Theodore Jervey Hopkins, III, and John North Hopkins; daughter-in-law, Coco Hopkins 骆晓岚 (Ted); son-in-law, Mark Parth Bhuptani (John); sister, Gayle May Foster; brothers, John Sharpe May, Jr. and James Timothy May; bother-in-law, John Sanford Foster (Gayle); sisters-in-law, Alice Brown May (John), Joan McLaine May (Henry), and Carole Lesley Kennedy May (Tim); grandchildren Emma Gabrielle Padilla (English), John Emerson Luken (Emily), Katherine Eloise Luken (Emily), Henry James Luken (Emily), and Diana Mei Hopkins 梁玥梅 (Ted). She was predeceased by her brother, Henry Lyon May.
The middle child of five, Katherine grew up in the small town of Burlington, NC, in what she described as a “free-range childhood of pure joy,” playing out in the woods behind her house at May’s Lake, and around town with friends. She adored her siblings, and throughout her life their shared laughter, stories, and memories remained a steady and defining presence. From the age of six, she rode horses almost constantly, developing a lifelong love of animals and the outdoors.
Katherine graduated from Converse College with a Bachelor of Arts in Art History. Her senior year, she was Chair of the Honor Board and Maid of Honor. After college, she spent time working in Vail, Colorado with her sister, Gayle, then moved to Atlanta, Georgia where she met her husband, Ted. After three years living in New York City, Katherine and Ted moved to Columbia with their young daughter, English, who they raised with three more children, Emily, Ted, and John. Katherine often expressed her good fortune in being able to stay at home with her children when they were young. She described those years as among the happiest in her life, including summers in the mountains, long days at the beach, countless days by the pool…and endless carpools.
After her children were grown, Katherine earned a master’s degree in library and information science and was inducted into the Phi Beta Mu international honor society. She began a long career at Hammond School as middle school librarian, which became one of the great joys of her life. She found her place in this new career and loved working with adolescents and forming close and lasting friendships with her dear colleagues. For those who knew her well, her love of books and learning was a path that was inevitable and not accidental.
Retirement did not slow her down. Never one to set aside her sense of purpose, she turned her energy toward Historic Columbia Foundation, where she served on the gardens committee, then for six years on the governing board. Gardening had long been a passion and this work allowed her to combine that love with a commitment to the history and beauty of the city of Columbia.
Throughout her life she was an avid gardener, and she was an active member of the Palmetto Garden Club of South Carolina, Garden Club of America. She cherished friendships and enjoyed learning from her fellow members, whom she described as stewards of the natural world. During her years as librarian, she relished the exchange of ideas and the discipline of sustained learning. Later, she joined and actively participated and delivered papers in the Thursday Study Club. Topics addressed the natural history of the world and its people, including Italy, Turkey, and the geological history of North America.
Katherine was, above all, a powerfully loving person who delighted in learning from her family and friends, her garden, her cherished libraries, and the books that were ever-present by her side. Years of extended research and planning shaped her enthusiasm for travel with Ted through the US, Europe (especially Italy), Turkey, Southeast Asia (Thailand, Singapore, Myanmar, Malaysia), and China with her son, Ted. She followed the wisdom of Zora Neale Hurston that “research is formalized curiosity,” and it brought her joy to share this with her family, friends, and community. It was natural for her to learn and expand.
Memorials may be sent to Historic Columbia Foundation, 1601 Richland Street, Columbia, SC 29201; The Great Oak Society of the Garden Club of America, 14 East 60th St, 3rd Floor New York, NY 10022; Hammond School (earmarked for faculty salaries), 854 Galway Lane, Columbia, SC 29209.
Family committal will be at the Hopkins Family Cemetery. A memorial service will be held at Trinity Episcopal Cathedral at noon on May 28, 2026. Shives Funeral Home, Trenholm Road Chapel, is assisting the family.
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