Shades Oasis

02/06/2026

Hi everyone. Due to anticipated ice and unsafe travel conditions this evening, Shades Oasis will be closed tonight out of care for member and staff safety. Please stay warm and safe. We will reopen as scheduled tomorrow and will keep you updated if anything changes. Thank you for understanding.

01/28/2026

Let’s be honest, most resolutions don’t survive February.

So how about choosing one that actually feels good?

In 2026, resolve to feel more connected, more grounded, and more you.

Start a pleasure journey at Shades Oasis with Debra Shade, where healing, curiosity, rest, and joy are allowed to coexist.

This isn’t about “fixing” yourself.

It’s about choosing yourself, on purpose.

Join our membership community and take $10 off any membership tier as a New Year’s gift to yourself.

Your nervous system will thank you. Your body already agrees.

Use promo code PLEASUREONPURPOSE26 before January 31 2026! Join with a friend or partner who wants to start a pleasure journey. https://shadesoasis.com/memberships/

Free onsite STI testing

01/25/2026

01/22/2026

We are accepting sign ups for our Valentines day speed dating event!
12:30 PM – 1:00 PM Check‑In + Mingling
Guests arrive, get name tags, and plot their dating domination strategy over snacks & mocktails. Icebreakers no wallflowers allowed.

1:00 PM – 2:00 PM Host Remarks + Rules and workshop
Rules of Engagement:
Respect is hotter than anything else here.
Consent first.
Laugh at bad jokes, courage counts.
Score discreetly, don’t be creepy.
workshop – dating, flirting, eye contact etc.

Structure:
5–6 minutes per mini-date, Bell or music shift = mandatory rotate! After each round, mark:your forms
3:00 PM – 3:30 PM Break + Light Mingling
Time for: Refill drinks, Laugh about over‑shared stories, Check your reflection
3:00 PM – 3:45 PM Open Flourish & Match Drop
Drop your scorecard into the Match Box
Optional
Compliment wall
Photo Booth (Cupid hats encouraged)
Candy Heart Confessions

Reminder: Consent > cute outfits.
3:45 PM - 4:00 PM — Wrap Up
Matches land in inboxes. Monday, February 16th

Scoring card includes:
Pass (gracefully)
Maybe (friend level!)
Yes!

2:00 PM – 3:00 PM Speed Dating Rounds
10 - 6-minute rounds for additonal connect

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01/21/2026

Your donation can be the difference for survivors wanting a healthy relationship that includes intimacy and communication around empowered consent.

Give here- tax deductible and beneficial!

By Harmony Bridge

01/21/2026

TOMORROW!

Ready to explore the world of Swinging and B**M in a respectful, informed, and exciting way?

Join us for a dynamic class where we break down essential etiquette tips that make your adventures smoother, safer, and way more satisfying. Whether you're flying solo, partnered up, or rolling deep with your crew – this is for you!

Register Now: https://my.rhinofit.ca/students/ or https://shadesoasis.com

Don't just play, play smart.

**M

01/15/2026

Please check your email for important information about our new Membership Dashboard.

We’re excited to share that we’re transitioning away from Rhinofit and bringing everything together on the Shades Oasis website — making it easier to connect, manage your profile, and explore events.

Interested in becoming a member?
Learn more here:
https://shadesoasis.com/?page_id=801

01/09/2026

This past year, we’ve created a safe haven for survivors and a voice for those who are too often ignored. The impact has been real, powerful, and deeply personal.

To continue this work, we need our community’s help. Any support—whether it’s a donation, a share, or words of encouragement—helps us keep these doors open.

Together, we can make sure this space continues to exist for those who need it most.

By Harmony Bridge

01/03/2026

Hi there, and Happy New Year. I’m sending you so much love and positive energy for a healthy, grounded year ahead.

We are asking folks to propel us into 2026 with support for our building. We are in need of funding for our brick and mortar space that is home to 244 members and then several hundreds of folks who will have one time experiences here.

Please give https://givebutter.com/z8Odd9 an amount with a $5 in it for Five Dollar Friday’s.

If you are unable to donate and you are able to share, we would be honored for you to share with your networks!!

Today! Support [Harmony Bridge (501c3) www.harmonybridge.info in expanding access to pleasure recovery services for all communities. Help us break down barriers and build bridges to healing.

Your donation is tax deductible! 614-450-0989 | yourjourney@harmonybridge.com

Debra Shade Clinical Sexologist and Master Sexpert

12/31/2025

I did this to end the year with a peek into my brain regarding the pleasure knowledge I have in it. The hormonal storm of arousal is essential to whole body wellness.
Scoop up this ebook and see why membership has it perks at Shades Oasis. This information will change how you look at your state of

Pleasure is not a luxury. Pleasure is a biological need. The nervous system is shaped by what you survive, what you suppress, and what you allow yourself to feel again. This digital bundle is a self-guided, trauma-informed experience that helps your body return to safety, sensation, softness, and co...

12/13/2025

WE ARE CLOSED!!

Hey there party people, we have made the decision to close for this evening for all of our safety.

With the temperature drop and the slushiness it'll be a sleigh ride home. We are going to reschedule this event for December the 27th at 7:00 p.m.

Your tickets will just roll over so there's nothing that you need to do but stay in and stay safe! See you soon.

10/14/2025

Shhh… there’s something amazing coming in November.
But those who wait might just miss the real magic.

October at Shades Oasis is already alive — soft shadows, warm laughter, and that quiet spark of connection that makes every night feel like a secret worth keeping.

Something’s stirring beneath the surface… listen closely — the whispers will lead you home.