Shades Oasis

02/15/2026

A must visit destination! This gallery has art by super talented artist, live music, poetry, signings you name it.

Visit and host your next brilliant idea surrounded by art. https://share.google/nS7L9ylGnkm7rnuOi

See you at noon! Our new library is officially open, and if you want to get your art on, we set some tables up.

02/15/2026

Rocked!! There is something great with the vibe of Shades Oasis.

02/13/2026

Hey what are you doing for Valentine's?

Drop it here for a share/idea for others!!

02/07/2026

Pleasure is an art, Dominance is a brush. Come learn how to yield the brush. Explore pleasure through topping. Tonight at 7p.

Be in by 9p.

02/06/2026

Hi everyone. Due to anticipated ice and unsafe travel conditions this evening, Shades Oasis will be closed tonight out of care for member and staff safety. Please stay warm and safe. We will reopen as scheduled tomorrow and will keep you updated if anything changes. Thank you for understanding.

01/28/2026

Let’s be honest, most resolutions don’t survive February.

So how about choosing one that actually feels good?

In 2026, resolve to feel more connected, more grounded, and more you.

Start a pleasure journey at Shades Oasis with Debra Shade, where healing, curiosity, rest, and joy are allowed to coexist.

This isn’t about “fixing” yourself.

It’s about choosing yourself, on purpose.

Join our membership community and take $10 off any membership tier as a New Year’s gift to yourself.

Your nervous system will thank you. Your body already agrees.

Use promo code PLEASUREONPURPOSE26 before January 31 2026! Join with a friend or partner who wants to start a pleasure journey. https://shadesoasis.com/memberships/

Free onsite STI testing

01/25/2026

01/22/2026

We are accepting sign ups for our Valentines day speed dating event!
12:30 PM – 1:00 PM Check‑In + Mingling
Guests arrive, get name tags, and plot their dating domination strategy over snacks & mocktails. Icebreakers no wallflowers allowed.

1:00 PM – 2:00 PM Host Remarks + Rules and workshop
Rules of Engagement:
Respect is hotter than anything else here.
Consent first.
Laugh at bad jokes, courage counts.
Score discreetly, don’t be creepy.
workshop – dating, flirting, eye contact etc.

Structure:
5–6 minutes per mini-date, Bell or music shift = mandatory rotate! After each round, mark:your forms
3:00 PM – 3:30 PM Break + Light Mingling
Time for: Refill drinks, Laugh about over‑shared stories, Check your reflection
3:00 PM – 3:45 PM Open Flourish & Match Drop
Drop your scorecard into the Match Box
Optional
Compliment wall
Photo Booth (Cupid hats encouraged)
Candy Heart Confessions

Reminder: Consent > cute outfits.
3:45 PM - 4:00 PM — Wrap Up
Matches land in inboxes. Monday, February 16th

Scoring card includes:
Pass (gracefully)
Maybe (friend level!)
Yes!

2:00 PM – 3:00 PM Speed Dating Rounds
10 - 6-minute rounds for additonal connect

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfzmVEqyRjqM6-oUgWAXCucVlPkRlZfE3AexdNlVsIAZXRbjQ/viewform?usp=header

01/21/2026

Your donation can be the difference for survivors wanting a healthy relationship that includes intimacy and communication around empowered consent.

Give here- tax deductible and beneficial!

By Harmony Bridge

01/21/2026

TOMORROW!

Ready to explore the world of Swinging and B**M in a respectful, informed, and exciting way?

Join us for a dynamic class where we break down essential etiquette tips that make your adventures smoother, safer, and way more satisfying. Whether you're flying solo, partnered up, or rolling deep with your crew – this is for you!

Register Now: https://my.rhinofit.ca/students/ or https://shadesoasis.com

Don't just play, play smart.

**M

01/15/2026

Please check your email for important information about our new Membership Dashboard.

We’re excited to share that we’re transitioning away from Rhinofit and bringing everything together on the Shades Oasis website — making it easier to connect, manage your profile, and explore events.

Interested in becoming a member?
Learn more here:
https://shadesoasis.com/?page_id=801

01/09/2026

This past year, we’ve created a safe haven for survivors and a voice for those who are too often ignored. The impact has been real, powerful, and deeply personal.

To continue this work, we need our community’s help. Any support—whether it’s a donation, a share, or words of encouragement—helps us keep these doors open.

Together, we can make sure this space continues to exist for those who need it most.

By Harmony Bridge