12/18/2025
If youโre the โeverything has to be perfectโ holiday hostโฆ your nervous system is exhausted.
Hosting mode =
๐๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ป๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ถ๐๐
๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐
Youโre managing menus, seating, timing, conversation, vibes, and 1,000 invisible details. Your body responds with:
๐ง๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ท๐ฎ๐
๐๐ถ๐ณ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐
๐๐๐น๐น-๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐-๐ผ๐ฟ-๐ณ๐น๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐
Perfectionism may impress your guests, but it quietly burns out your brain and spine.
๐ท Hosts, this is your sign:
Take 5โ10 minutes for you after everyone leaves
๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ฒ, ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฐ๐ต, ๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฝ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐
๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ผ๐๐ป ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ต๐๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐
Send us a ๐๐ with ๐๐ข๐ฆ๐ง if this is you and you know your spine needs a reset.