Dr. Beth Hollander, Licensed Psychologist

Dr. Beth Hollander, Licensed Psychologist I'm a psychologist who specializes in anxiety disorders and emotion regulation.

12/16/2025

Sesame Street: getting it right yet again.

Thinking of those who are struggling, either with their own pain or with loss. You're not alone.
11/22/2025

Thinking of those who are struggling, either with their own pain or with loss. You're not alone.

11/20/2025

November 20th is Transgender Day of Remembrance, where we acknowledge and honor the trans, nonbinary, and gender-nonconforming lives cut short by anti-trans violence. With the rise of anti-trans laws, attacks on health care, and hate crimes, the fight for their futures and their rights is urgent.

Trans and nonbinary people deserve more than equality – they deserve safety, dignity, joy, and more than anything, they deserve to grow old.

11/18/2025

Take a moment with Elmo and Mr. Jonathan

10/10/2025

Just a reminder that your mental health is just as important as any other part of your health.

You are loved, and you deserve to be here. Take care of yourself.

In preparation for today's announcement by POTUS and the Secretary of HHS that Tylenol use by pregnant women causes auti...
09/22/2025

In preparation for today's announcement by POTUS and the Secretary of HHS that Tylenol use by pregnant women causes autism, I strongly encourage you to do your own research on this topic (using reputable sources, like academic journals, and websites ending with .org and .edu, not those ending with .com).

There are some studies that show a weak correlation between Tylenol use and rates of autism, while other studies (like the one linked below from the Journal of the American Medical Association in 2024) show no correlation between the two. Trump spoke to reporters on Sunday and is quoted in the New York Times as saying "I *think* it's a very big factor" (emphasis added by me; "it" refers to acetaminophen). This is not a situation where opinion matters at all.

It should come as no surprise that the people listed above are leaning heavily on the limited information that supports their platform and discarding information that contradicts it. They are looking for an explanation for the increase in the prevalence of autism - what they are not understanding (among other things) is that it is the recognition of autism has increased, which has led to an increase in the number of children diagnosed with autism spectrum disorders; but the prevalence of autism spectrum disorders has remained the same.

This nationwide cohort study with sibling control analysis examines the association of acetaminophen use during pregnancy with children’s risk of autism, ADHD, and intellectual disability.

09/08/2025

Today is 988 Day!

988 is the Su***de & Crisis Lifeline — a number that can save lives. Just like 911 is for emergencies, 988 is for mental health crises. When someone is struggling, this is the number that connects them to immediate help and hope.

Let’s spread love, light, and awareness together. Share this post and make sure your loved ones know about 988. Because sometimes, just knowing where to turn can make all the difference.

P.S. We Love You!

#988

Friends and followers - please take the time to read the statement below and to sign the petition. Thank you.~~~~~~~~~~~...
07/07/2025

Friends and followers - please take the time to read the statement below and to sign the petition. Thank you.

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Like many combat veterans, I struggled to access mental health care from the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA). And when I finally did, the VA put me into a treatment that not only failed to help — it made my PTSD symptoms worse.

Within two sessions, my assigned therapist pushed me to relive my traumatic experiences in a way that brought me back to the Gulf War. The treatment essentially retraumatized me.

At first, I thought psychotherapy wasn’t the answer to my condition. But later, I discovered that therapy is one of the most powerful tools for healing from PTSD — when it’s the right kind for the patient.

Everything changed once my therapist gave me the space and time that I needed to open up. After building trust with him, I’ve been able to foster new relationships and stay present. My PTSD improved.

But my therapy was cut short. After a few months of care, the VA told me that I had reached a session limit and therapy had to end. I later learned that veterans nationwide are experiencing the same thing – therapy ending prematurely.

The truth is the VA has a hidden policy: It denies veterans’ access to psychotherapy that exceeds 20 sessions. Ask other veterans — the VA rarely allows us to see the same therapist consistently and on an ongoing basis, the way civilians can.

I’m sorry, but I find this policy to be useless and offensive. After serving in the Army for 14 years, including 11 months in the Gulf War, how is it fair — or effective — to force me to treat my PTSD under a mandated deadline? Veterans should be allowed to build a strong relationship with their therapist, and yes, that will likely take longer than 20 sessions.

That’s why I’m asking for your support. Join me in urging the federal government to end the 20 session limit for psychotherapy.

Sign the petition today and help veterans get the mental health care they need and deserve.

The VA’s focus on limiting sessions is part of the reason why it favors treatments such as Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), which aims to treat PTSD in 12 sessions. Of course, “completing” a therapy protocol is not the same as healing, but that matters less to government officials who are more interested in checking boxes than helping people.

In fact, my initial experience with VA therapy, where I was retraumatized, was actually CPT. To be clear, CPT may be helpful for some of my fellow veterans. It just didn’t work for me — and I’m not alone. Others often report similar negative experiences, reliving their post-traumatic events, leading them to drop out of treatment and deal with their trauma on their own.

But this petition isn’t about comparing different practices of psychotherapy. It’s about recognizing that veterans’ needs and preferences are different, and the VA should adapt to providing the treatment that veterans want and need.

The VA’s one-size-fits-all approach to psychotherapy isn’t just unscientific, it’s harmful. Research consistently demonstrates that a patient's relationship with their therapist is the strongest treatment-related predictor of positive outcomes. And positive outcomes are essential for veterans. For many of us, therapy is a lifeline that prevents addiction, which in turn can lead to homelessness, or worst of all, su***de.

Tell the federal government: End the VA’s 20 session limit on psychotherapy. Give veterans a real choice over their care and a chance at healing. Sign the petition below.

Thank you,

John Diaz (aka Cpt D)
Former U.S. Army Reserve Captain
14 years of service, including 11 months in the Gulf War

Favorite quote: "It matters less that you can fight, but what you fight for is the real task." — John McCain

Give Veterans a Real Choice in Their Mental Health Care

06/23/2025

With the heat advisory over the next few days and the temperature expected to exceed 100° on Tuesday 🥵, here is a gentle reminder, specifically to those who take SSRIs, to make sure to remain hydrated and cool.

Stay safe!

I'm moving! As of March 9, 2025, you can find me at 366 Veterans Memorial Highway, Suite 6, Commack, NY 11725. As always...
03/07/2025

I'm moving! As of March 9, 2025, you can find me at 366 Veterans Memorial Highway, Suite 6, Commack, NY 11725. As always, please visit my website www.drbethhollander.com or call me at (516) 336-8149 to schedule an appointment.

Licensed Psychologist

01/01/2025

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366 Veterans Memorial Highway, Suite 6
Commack, NY
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