I Love What I Doula, LLC

I Love What I Doula, LLC Full spectrum doula + infant care specialist. I believe anything sacred should be treated with compassion, love, openness, awareness and respect.

I support and guide women as they walk the path from womanhood into motherhood and through a life changing experience by reconnecting them and their families to the sacred side of birth and postpartum. As a full spectrum doula, I'm prepared to support my clients if circumstances change part way through a pregnancy, as I'm ready to support clients through loss as well as a full-term birth. My umbrella of support include:
Birth Doula
Postpartum Doula
Sibling Doula
Bereavement Doula ( free service with option for in-person or virtual support)
Adoption Doula.

03/12/2026

“You’re 9–9.5 cm… there’s just a little lip.”

If you’ve ever heard this in labour, your provider was likely talking about a cervical lip.

A cervical lip happens when most of the cervix has dilated, but a small section hasn’t quite moved out of the way yet.
Instead of the cervix being fully open, there’s a small edge of tissue still sitting in front of the baby’s head.

It’s actually very common near complete dilation.

Why does it happen?

Often it’s related to baby’s position and pressure on the cervix.
If the baby’s head is slightly off-center, one part of the cervix can dilate slower than the rest.

Sometimes it can also happen if someone starts pushing before the cervix is fully dilated, which can cause swelling of that remaining piece of cervix.

The good news: most cervical lips resolve on their own.

Things that can help include:

• Changing positions to take pressure off the cervix
• Side-lying or exaggerated side-lying positions
• Hands and knees
• Waiting a little longer before pushing
• In some cases, a provider may gently reduce the lip during a contraction

Once that last bit of cervix moves out of the way, labour can progress very quickly.

So if you ever hear the phrase “just a little lip left” during labour, it usually means you’re incredibly close to meeting your baby.

Had you ever heard of a cervical lip before?
Or did it come up during your labour?

03/09/2026

When women gave birth many years ago, hospital birth followed a strict set of routines. Women laboured in small, bare rooms with very little comfort or support. Partners and family members were usually not allowed in the room, which meant many women laboured alone while their partners waited elsewhere.

Admission procedures were also very different. Shaving p***c hair and giving enemas were routine, based on the belief that they prevented infection or embarrassment during birth. At the time, these practices were rarely questioned.

Once labour progressed, birth typically happened in a room set up much like an operating theatre, not the same room they laboured in. Women were placed on a bed with stirrups, and medical staff directed the process. Episiotomies were almost automatic. It wasn’t until decades later that research showed cutting the perineum routinely could actually increase the risk of severe tears.

Medication was also commonly used. Sedatives, narcotics, and gas were frequently given during labour. Epidurals were heavy and often left women unable to move or push effectively, which meant instruments like forceps were used more often.

Caesareans were less common than they are today, partly because they were considered riskier at the time.

After birth, babies were quickly taken away to be cleaned and bathed because people believed newborns needed to be “sterilized” after birth. We now understand that immediate bathing can stress newborns and that their natural skin and bacteria offer important protection.

Postpartum care followed rigid routines, too. Babies were often kept in a nursery, brought to their mothers on a schedule for feeding. Breastfeeding support was inconsistent, and many mothers were encouraged to supplement with formula if any challenges arose.

Looking back, many of these practices were simply accepted as normal. But over time, research and advocacy from parents, midwives, nurses, and doctors began to change things.

Today, many hospitals offer birthing rooms designed for comfort and family presence. Partners and support people are usually welcome. Women have more options for movement, pain relief, and the type of support they want during labour. Education about breastfeeding and newborn care is also much more available.

That said, birth is still influenced by the culture of the place where it happens. Families often need to ask questions, learn about their options, and choose care providers who align with their goals.

Science isn't absolute. It's fluid and changes as information becomes more available.

In many ways, birth today offers more choice and knowledge than ever before.

Whether birth happens at home or in a hospital, having trusted people around you—people who respect your body and your decisions—can make all the difference.

Things today are better in many ways, but learning about birth culture and birth history is important so that we remember that things can always be better. We do better when we know better.

03/03/2026
03/02/2026
We love and support Dr T at  Impact Chiropractic! 🩷🩷
03/02/2026

We love and support Dr T at Impact Chiropractic! 🩷🩷

Bumpin’ and adjusting 🤰💛
Growing a tiny human is no small job, and neither is keeping mama comfortable while she does it.
From low back support to better mobility and pelvic balance, chiropractic care during pregnancy helps mamas feel more like themselves (even at 30+ weeks 😉). Dr. T loves taking care of our glowing moms-to-be, because when mama feels good, baby benefits too.
Alright mamas…
Drop how many weeks you are below!

02/27/2026

We recently had the honor of supporting our first 37-week birth. Such a special experience to witness a journey that only about 10% of first-time mothers have. From start to finish it was beautiful, raw, and deeply heartfelt the kind of birth that reminds us why this work means so much. 🤍

37-week club, where you at?! ✨
Mamas, doulas, and birth workers -we’d love to hear your 37-week stories 👇🏽💬

Being on call is a quiet kind of devotion 🤍It’s living with one ear open in the night, one eye on the calendar, and a he...
02/27/2026

Being on call is a quiet kind of devotion 🤍

It’s living with one ear open in the night, one eye on the calendar, and a heart always ready. It’s saying yes to the unknown hours, the missed plans, and the middle of the night drives all for the honor of standing beside families as new life begins.

To be on call as a doula is to hold space not just during birth, but in the waiting… the wondering… the becoming.

This work asks a lot, but it gives even more. It is sacred to be trusted in such tender moments, and we carry that responsibility with deep gratitude.

For every family who has welcomed us into their story thank you. You are the reason we keep saying yes ✨♥️

When I say I’m on call, it isn’t cute branding.

It’s not a marketing phrase.
It’s not aesthetic.
It’s not flexible hours.

It means my ringer is on at 3am.

It means I sleep lightly.
It means my phone stays within reach at dinner, in the shower, at the grocery store, at my kids’ activities.

It means I don’t commit to trips.
I don’t schedule hair appointments.
I don’t book sessions outside a certain radius.

Because if your contractions pick up, I go.

It means leaving dinner half eaten.
It means whispering to my husband, “I'm headed to a birth.” at 4:08 in the morning and kissing him goodbye.
It means grabbing my bag and walking out the door without knowing when I’ll be home.

It means your due date lives in the back of my mind every single day that month.

I am watching the calendar.
I am checking in.
I am mentally prepared.

Because birth does not wait for convenience.

It doesn’t care if it’s Christmas morning.
Or my child’s birthday.
Or 2:17am after I just fell asleep.

And when you hire me, you are not just booking a time slot.

You are reserving my presence.

You are reserving my availability.
My energy.
My focus.

You are asking me to build my life around the possibility of your labor starting at any moment.

And I say yes to that intentionally.

Because this work matters.

But that level of commitment deserves to be understood.

When you invest in birth photography or doula support, you are not just paying for the hours I’m physically in the room.

You are paying for the weeks of availability.
The mental load of readiness.
The nights on standby.
The rearranged schedule.

You are paying for someone who is prepared to show up fully, no matter when your baby decides it’s time.

Your birth is not a side job to me or a cute trend I saw on pinterest.
It's not a "well if I can" kind of session.

It is something I structure my entire life around.

And that kind of presence requires real commitment.

It is costly.
But it is also
Intentional.
A sacrifice.
Soul work.

And it is deeply valued 🤎

02/27/2026

A hospital in New York welcomed a 4lb baby and a 13lb baby just hours from each other.

2 babies on the opposite ends of size.

Our bodies are pretty incredible.

And babies can be born in all shapes and sizes!

To be a woman is to carry stories strength, grief, love all beautifully intertwined. 🤍Fridays birth story circle was ten...
02/21/2026

To be a woman is to carry stories strength, grief, love all beautifully intertwined. 🤍

Fridays birth story circle was tender and powerful. The stories shared were raw, empowering, and deeply sacred. There is something so healing about sitting in a room where every journey is honored different, valid, and profoundly special.

Motherhood stretches us thin, but what filled the space was resilience. A resilience shaped by each unique path into and through birth.

Being in these spaces brings so much joy to my heart. Thank you to every woman who showed up, shared, listened, and held the circle with such softness and strength 💕💕

You’re invited to Birth Story Circle 🤎A sacred space to share, process, and be held with love.Birth changes us. Whether ...
02/12/2026

You’re invited to Birth Story Circle 🤎

A sacred space to share, process, and be held with love.

Birth changes us. Whether your story feels empowering, complicated, tender, or unfinished it deserves space. It deserves listening ears. It deserves care.

This circle is for healing, connection, and community.
No fixing. No advice. Just presence.

Infants are welcome in arms because your story and your motherhood belong here together.

Come as you are. Can’t wait to see everyone ✨

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