Marlene Marty Heffner LMT, CMLDT

12/25/2025

Gratitude is and will forever be a buzzword for those who seek spiritual expansion, personal development, and manifestation methods. This powerful practice and state of mind will always stay in style because there’s no season where it won’t improve your life.

Exercising gratitude shifts your focus away from fear, lack, and desire, and aims it toward presence, abundance, celebration, awe, positivity, and appreciation.⁣⁣

Gratitude is a must if you wish to enjoy your life. You can spend a lifetime in constant pursuit of bigger and better things, never really holding on to a feeling of appreciation and accomplishment. The mind will continue to look for the next thing to be happy, and happiness will never occur where you are, in the present moment – the only time we ever have.⁣⁣

Here’s the thing, your problems and feelings are valid, despite how insignificant your current situation might look compared to what someone is going through. Struggles are relative. You deserve compassion and support. Suppressing your emotions can be dangerous as it may encourage you to minimize your struggles in the future while imprinting guilt and shame.⁣⁣

Nevertheless, exercising awareness of your privilege and cultivating gratitude can help you gain perspective and clarity. Also, identifying your blessings can help you meet others with more compassion, grace and understanding.⁣

When you’re going through a tough time, gratitude might be a reminder that says:⁣⁣

“It’s OK to feel this way. I acknowledge it and accept it. I also know that my life isn’t as bad as these emotions are making it out to be.”⁣⁣

Once your thoughts lean toward this trajectory, you can sustain momentum by proving to yourself why your life isn’t bad. Maybe it’s having internet access and working electricity or specific relationships.⁣

When you’re less stuck on any difficult emotions, you’re able to release some of the mental tension that inhibits your confidence and actions towards a solution. You begin to identify more opportunities.⁣⁣

Furthermore, when gratitude becomes a practice and your natural response or state of mind, happiness is found regularly in your life.

12/25/2025

I hope everyone has a safe, loved, beautiful Christmas!! I feel especially blessed this season, with work & home! 2026 is just around the corner and I'm praying for another year of massage & good health 🙏

12/24/2025

This.

Cory Allen

12/24/2025

12/23/2025

Days like today ....snow. ice.
I live close to work, but if roads are bad for any of my people, please cancel!! Nothing is more important than your safety!! We can reschedule ❣️

12/19/2025

Back at work after a wonderful time in Sedona! Gift Certificates are available if you need a gift!!
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11/29/2025

🪢 Apron Belly & Your Lymphatic System 🌊

By Bianca Botha, CLT | RLD | MLDT

🍃 What is an “Apron Belly”?

An apron belly (also called a panniculus or abdominal overhang) develops when excess fat and skin fold over the lower abdomen. It often appears after pregnancy, menopause, significant weight changes, or genetic fat distribution patterns. While it’s usually discussed in terms of appearance or discomfort, apron belly also has a direct impact on your lymphatic system.

🌊 How Apron Belly Affects the Lymphatic System

1. Compression of Lymphatic Vessels
• The weight of the overhanging tissue presses on superficial lymphatic vessels in the inguinal region (groin) and lower abdomen.
• This slows drainage from the legs, pelvic organs, and lower trunk, often leading to swelling in thighs, knees, and feet.

2. Impaired Venous Return
• Lymph and venous blood flow work together. A panniculus compresses abdominal and iliac veins, reducing fluid clearance and worsening heaviness in the lower limbs.

3. Moisture & Inflammation
• Skin folds create warm, moist environments. This encourages chronic low-grade inflammation and infections (intertrigo), which increase lymphatic burden.

4. Obstructed Core Pumping
• Normal lymph flow depends on diaphragm movement and abdominal pressure changes. Extra abdominal weight + apron fold restrict diaphragmatic breathing, weakening this natural “lymph pump.”

5. Cascading Effect
• When drainage slows in the abdomen, fluid backs up in the lower body. This leads to heaviness, cellulitis risk, delayed healing, and restricted mobility.

🧬 Clinical Observations
• Patients with apron belly often show sluggish inguinal node response and leg/ankle edema.
• Chronic congestion may progress to secondary lymphedema.
• In those with lipedema (a genetic, hormonal adipose/connective tissue disorder), apron belly worsens fluid overload. Over time, this may lead to lipo-lymphoedema — the overlap of lipedema and secondary lymphedema.
• Important distinction: lipedema is not caused by lymphedema. Lipedema is hereditary and hormonally triggered (puberty, pregnancy, menopause), but untreated congestion can accelerate progression into lipo-lymphoedema.
• In obesity, fat tissue itself is inflamed, producing cytokines (IL-6, TNF-α), further overloading the lymphatics and impairing mitochondrial energy.

🌱 Supporting Lymphatic Flow with Apron Belly
1. Manual Lymphatic Drainage (MLD): Clears congested abdominal and inguinal nodes.
2. Abdominal Breathing & Core Work: Diaphragmatic breathing and gentle exercises pump lymph.
3. Garment Support: Abdominal binders or supportive compression reduce mechanical drag.
4. Skin Care: Keeping folds dry and clean lowers infection risk → reduces inflammatory load.
5. Movement Therapy: Walking, aquatic exercise, and pelvic tilts aid lymph return from legs.
6. Weight Management & Anti-Inflammatory Diet: Decreases cytokine burden on the lymphatics.

✨ Takeaway

An apron belly is more than skin deep — it directly blocks lymphatic highways in your abdomen, slowing detox and drainage. While apron belly itself does not cause lipedema, it can worsen congestion, trigger secondary lymphedema, and accelerate progression toward lipo-lymphoedema in those genetically predisposed.

By supporting lymph flow through therapy, movement, and lifestyle care, you can ease swelling, reduce pain, improve comfort, and protect long-term lymphatic health.

📌 This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your healthcare provider before making changes to your diet, exercise, or health regimen.