03/19/2026
The apostle Paul repeatedly warned believers not to give unlimited access to those who persist in destructive behavior while claiming godliness.
One of the clearest passages says:
“Having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.” — 2 Timothy 3:5
In context, Paul describes people who are:
• lovers of self
• lovers of money
• proud and abusive
• ungrateful and unholy
• without self-control
• slanderous
• brutal
• treacherous
• lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God
These are not outsiders. These are people who look similar to Christians, maybe they attend church and Bible study, but live in open contradiction to God.
Paul gives other direct commands to separate:
“Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them.” — Titus 3:10
Division is not a small issue in the New Testament. It destroys churches and relationships. He also warns believers not to partner with persistent disorder:
“Keep away from every brother who is walking in idleness and not in accord with the tradition you received from us.” —2 Thessalonians 3:6
And again:
“Take note of that person and have nothing to do with him, that he may be ashamed.” —2 Thessalonians 3:14
This is not cruelty. It is corrective distance meant to lead to repentance. Paul even addresses so-called believers living in open sin:
“Do not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral, greedy, an idolater, slanderer, drunkard, or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.” —1 Corinthians 5:11
Notice the distinction: this applies to those who claim Christ while refusing to turn from sin, NOT to unbelievers. Paul makes that clear just a few verses earlier—we would have to leave the world entirely to avoid unbelievers (1 Corinthians 5:10).
Finally, he warns about false teachers:
“Watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine you have been taught; avoid them.” — Romans 16:17
What This Does NOT Mean
It does not mean:
• hate people
• refuse to forgive
• avoid evangelizing
• act self-righteous
It means guarding your heart, your home, and the body of Christ from influence that corrupts.
The Bible never teaches unconditional access to your life. Even Jesus set boundaries.
He showed love to everyone—but He did not entrust Himself to everyone (John 2:24).
The most loving thing you can do is refuse to enable destruction.
