03/25/2026
One of the most powerful tools parents have is praise.
We say it often ---> positive encouragement can change the direction of a child’s behavior. It’s so easy, especially when we’re tired, to focus on what isn’t going well. But when we intentionally notice and praise the behaviors we do want to see, children are much more likely to repeat them.
“I’m proud of how you stayed calm.”
“Thank you for trying, even when it was hard.”
“I noticed how patient you were just now.”
Those small moments of positive feedback build confidence, strengthen connection, and reinforce the skills we want our children to keep using.
Sometimes shifting our focus from correcting to encouraging makes all the difference.