11/27/2025
Happy Thanksgiving!
Turkey Day may mean changes in schedules, traveling, loud noises, unfamiliar people, different foods and not just a little chaos! Here are some tips that you can try and to share with others that may help your child enjoy the day and help others understand their needs:
(1) Share with your child what to expect. Consider a picture schedule, a written schedule or a conversation that can help your child understand what sights, sounds and smells might be involved in the holiday.
(2) Anticipate what might create anxiety or meltdown and take a break before the child becomes overwhelmed. Don't force engagements or expectations and let them know it's okay if they need to be in a quiet place rather than with guests. Allow play in a preferred activity or with a favorite toy.
(3) Have a favorite holiday food available. Let them eat what and where they are comfortable, even if it may not be with the rest of the family.
(3) Let your guests know about sensory needs: that a lack of communication or affection is not personal but that your child has limits for them to be comfortable.
Creating a Thanksgiving environment for autistic children isn't about achieving perfection--it's about offering understanding, flexibility and genuine care. Gratitude is shown not only in words but in how we make space for one another.
We can create a Thanksgiving celebration where autistic children feel safe, supported and truly at home.