Ryen Blaschke

02/13/2026

I am delighted to officially announce my new service offering Therapeutic Couples Coaching based in IFIO (Intimacy from the Inside Out) aka the IFS couples modality.

As a dedicated and ethically based student, after my training in this work concluded in May of last year, I have been spending the last 9 months working with couples to hone my skills before officially announcing this service. It has been a wonderful and intuitive addition to my 6 years of work as an IFS Practitioner. I've also gone on to complete an advanced IFIO training specializing in helping couples navigate challenges related to s*x and intimacy.

In the last several months of offering this modality, it has fueled my heart and soul like no other. It is an incredibly beautiful process to facilitate as well as witness.

I can confidently say that IFIO couples works is one of the most in-depth and effective couples modalities out there (and I've studied relational work for over 20 years of my own accord).

It drastically differs from other couples modalities, why?

- It's based in IFS parts work, developing deep self awareness and a nuanced understanding of the various parts of yourself as well as your multiplicity
- It effectively helps you see and unblend from the dominant protective mechanisms that are failing to effectively help you connect with others and relay your needs and wants
- It helps you truly see and be able to relate with your significant other as a holistic system, not just individuals
- It helps you self regulate from a place of clarity and compassion that then builds more conscious and deeper co-regulation
- Its a model based in a transpersonal process helping you clear the space for greater consciousness to hold and guide you to divine union and/or ultimate truth no matter the outcome
and much much more

If you or anyone is interested in receiving this work, I currently have 2 openings for couples and can support you via remote work worldwide. I also am currently offering a very affordable rate for my first year of offering it, so I recommend taking advantage 🙂

And to my fellow therapeutic practitioners, I hope you'll consider me for referral to your 1:1 clients seeking couples work, and I'll be happy to add you to my referral roster as well ❤

Let us learn the effective tools and be held in returning to love, everyday!

With love and gratitude,
Ryen

Therapeutic Couples Coaching Based in IFIO (Intimacy from the Inside Out) Therapeutic Couples Coaching is for Couples Wanting to:Understand where communication breakdowns happenClear blocks that stand in the waySupport repeated spirals and patternsDeepen your understanding of one anotherDevelop heal...

02/02/2026

Speaking to the capacity within each of us to hold nuanced awareness of both our faith and hope while also recognizing our fear and pain. We don’t have to pick one over the other, nor do others around us in order for us to know we, and our world is going to be ok

Life is both beautiful as well as painful

Fear wants to divide us
Love reminds us we are all one of the same going through it

🙏🏻❤️‍🔥🪽

01/12/2026

Power to my big feelers but also the ones who can hold steady ground while feeling their feels 🏆

There is a big difference between:

Allowing ourselves to feel our feelings
vs
Feeling our feelings with loving discernment, recognizing they are not our reality

For example:
-That perspective your fear is bringing about the future is not 100% based in facts
-The belief your insecurity is bring about yourself is just a belief
-The narrowness your anger is bringing about a person is not the full picture
The degree of urgency your stress is bringing about a task may not be all the way accurate

Easy to know but harder to practice. The more you practice loving discernment of your emotions, the more of a habit it becomes, and the more clear, grounded, and regulated of a reality you bring to yourself and life.

❤️💫🌈

11/19/2025

It can be easy to fall into limited beliefs, doubts, and hopelessness when we are navigating big healing and changes.

It is especially challenging when we don’t yet have a felt sense of what it will be like on the other side.

But in times of great mystery comes great faith.

Faith is the energy of believing, trusting, and surrendering to a trajectory that is being held, supported, and guided by something bigger than us.

And the parts of us that are struggling within us need to have faith in being held by something bigger as well.

They need to have faith in the bigger US, and our capacity to hold them, support, and guide them into healing.

Practice having deeper faith in your healing, and bringing that to your inner system, and everything within it will feel held.

From there healing is more able to naturally take place as it’s meant to. It’s only our resistance, fear, and doubt that can block it.

❤️❤️❤️

10/27/2025

1 year has now passed since my Hazel made his grand transition back to spirit.

As I reflect on this past year, I find it hard to describe what it’s been like with him no longer by my side in physical form. I both remember every fiber of his being entrained with mine and our daily life together of 13 years, while at the same time have somehow found a way to be used to his physical absence.

My nervous system has been slowly finding regulation after the heartbreak and loss of the daily serotonin and oxytocin that we would create together. An initiation into full self dependence and resilience like never before, I’ve had to find safety and grounding in my anxious prone system and have been building it while living alone, single, in a new city, and through major transitions and expansion.

Hazel has and will always be my guide to deeper growth and healing. I’ve been through a process of maturation since the day I brought him home, from maiden into womanhood, age 30-43. He was with me during multiple cross country moves, a major career change, ego deaths, identity shifts, and multiple spiritual awakenings.

Through all of that, nothing has been as expansive as learning how to live without him by my physical side. As I’ve grieved and been healing from his transition, I’ve deepened my relationship God like never before in order to feel the love and magic I felt with him in my life. Now with Hazel in spirit and God closer in my heart, I’ve experienced love and magic in unimaginable ways.

This has brought me to wholeness and right relationship with God. Hazel showed me what true love and devotion was in our earthly time together as well as now in spirit, so I could open my eyes and heart to it in all ways. I now know and understand love directly from God thanks to Hazel. He is my angel, my initiator, my mirror of divinity.

So with that, my love for Hazel and God continues to grow, and I allow them to crack my heart open with each moment of spiritual connection, awe, and magic they bring.

To my love/soulmate/bestfriend/son Hazel, I celebrate your eternal aliveness and bow in reverence to you and our life together. Thank you for always bringing me home.

🙏🏻❤️🪽✨

10/02/2025

We are holistic beings that need holistic healing and personal development.

The time has come for containers and practitioners who can ethically and skillfully provide both.

Anything else just falls short.

It’s time to honor your multidimensionality and deeper being from all lines of healing and development.

Your healing and evolution are worth it.

All the love
🙏🏻🪽❤️✨

09/14/2025

I’ll never forget one of the biggest moments I felt God show up as love to help me overcome crippling fear & anxiety.

It was immediately following my first intensive training at the Arthur Findlay College for psychic mediumship development in 2018.

I had 2 years of Mediumship development under my belt at that point but nothing prepared my mind for the terror of letting go of mental and physical control that arose after opening up to trance mediumship for the first time (a whole other ball game in the world of psychic connection).

I was staying in busy and harsh London after a quiet week at the school in the English countryside, & my system was so entirely cracked open & not ready for the real world yet.

I couldn’t shake the feeling of spirit blending with me that my mind was still reeling from & integrating, that I kept feeling it was happening for hours & days afterwards. In my sensitive and open state, my mind took this new & unknown sensation & turned it into a fearful obsession that kept me up at night. For a week I felt terrorized by the fear of loosing all control of my mind & body.

Finally one day on a hike after leaving the city and traveling to Cornwall, I broke down sobbing & begging for help from God & spirit. I felt my heart stressed & broken from having such a negative & terrifying experience with spirit.

Suddenly, I felt a burst of light & love come into my heart & allow me to see that what I was feeling was not spirit terrorizing me, but the energy of fear manifested in a form that my mind had made up. The clever & devotional energy of fear was simply playing with me & shaping into a form so convincing, it almost had me in a complete mental breakdown.

It was then that I deeply felt & understood that no amount of fear EVER overcomes love.

That love is always underneath everything, including the most confusing and scary experiences we can ever have. And that even fear was driven by love in the form of a mental projection so convincing, it taught me the biggest lesson of my life.

That Love is the foundation of our universe.
And fear is always a human illusion.

It was on that day that I vowed to learn how to befriend fear, & serve Love as our deepest truth as much as humanely possible.

Fear will manifest in whatever shape we invite it to. Instead, embody your sovereign right and innate capacity to overcome fear and alchemize it into love ❤️‍🔥

Only love is real
❤️🙏🏻❤️

09/12/2025

Fear is just the absence of love ❤️

Bring love into all the places the fear is looking to be

Let love hold you
Let is heal you
Let it lead you

✨🪽❤️🙏🏻❤️🪽✨

08/26/2025

For as long as I could remember, I have craved depth

To understand the origins of life, notice and capture the magic of our universe, and feel emotions and aliveness at their deepest levels

I’ve never been a “casual” person but I also have been gifted the capacity to play at the deepest levels as well

I often get mistaken as much younger than I am, not solely due to my looks but due to a youthful, open, and deeply curious nature. A lot of times I even get mistaken as nieve or unknowledgeable because I love to learn and forever be a student. But it is because of this that I have also cultivated my depth

Other times I get mistaken for “too much” or “too deep”, when I don’t remain predictable or comfortable for those who want to stay on the surface. But all of those are interpretations and projections of another’s own level of depth and embodiment of complexity

Depth comes from lightness and lightness comes from depth. You cannot have one without the other. They are the yin and yang that make up our universe as well as our true nature

Focusing on just one or the other will fall short, stay one dimensional, and flat. To be whole, complete, as well as at our happiest is to cultivate our lightness and darkness to the deepest degrees

One thing I’m actively focused on is letting my depth be more known upfront, to be more raw and bravely authentic, to let the whole range of myself be free, available, and expressed moment to moment. And I’m working on not worrying as much about the impact, surprise, or confusion it might conjure in others

My depth has been my offering to the world for as long as I remember whether or not I was ready for it. My work in recent years has been to full heartedly embrace and own that and continue allowing it to be an invitation for others to also be embrace the truth of who they are. Not everyone enjoys or is ready for that, and may fight, reject, or misinterpret me as a result

But we all come to a point when we are ready to finally and openly receive ourselves no matter what. And my people find me and join in as a result. Partners, lovers, friends, family, or clients, I’m forever grateful. Thank you for meeting your depths ❤️‍🔥

06/19/2025

As June comes around, it marks the passing of time in my career, now with 6 years as a Therapeutic Coach and 9 as a professional Psychic Medium.

One thing I admit I will always feel a disconnect from is the way that healing and coaching work has made its way to social media and is now largely represented on it as a form of legitimacy.

I love utilizing this platform to express, share, be of service, and offer to but it will never truly represent the internal felt sense of my own level of expertise and experience, and I’m ok with that.

I do my best to represent myself and my work online but as we know there are limitations to algorithms, digital expression, and word counts in showing the full range of a human as well as multi leveled complex healing and spiritual processes. I’ll keep doing my best though 🙂��So with that a little official re-introduction:

I am both an empath and academic with a lifelong connection to the power of subtle energies as well as a fascination for human growth, healing, and development. I hold a Master’s degree in Consciousness Studies and Transpersonal Psychology, am a Level 2 IFS (Internal Family Systems) Practitioner, an IFIO (Intimacy From the Inside Out) Couples Practitioner, and am certified in Therapeutic Life Coaching.

Since 2019 I have been providing Holistic Therapeutic Coaching, supporting over 300 clients through private practice and coaching for several Mental Health providers. I work with adult individuals and couples. I am trauma-informed and trained in IFS, IFIO, CBT, ACT, MBCT, and motivational interviewing.

Additionally in 2016 I was Certified as a Psychic Medium from the Holistic Studies Institute of NY, as well as hold attendance to intensive study programs at the world-renowned Arthur Findlay College of Mediumship Development in England. Since then I have provided Psychic Mediumship to individuals across the globe and at various psychic fairs. I also teach and mentor in Psychic and Mediumship development.

I’m so grateful to be of service and support to your holistic healing and spiritual connection everyday. Thank you all so much for being here and for your ongoing trust and support.
❤️🙏🏻🪽🌸✨