11/24/2025
I know for me I vacillate between masculine and feminine energies. I think we all do to differing degrees. Some days or hours you may find that a more masculine version of you wants to be present, and other times a more feminine version.
You can add to these energies, but these are the general feeling for me
Masc- forward moving and strong. Accociated with mental energy and intelligence, and also root energy which is primal. He is earth or rock energy. A holding containment for the feminine. Strong in body and in will power. Brute, and swift. Masculines strength lies in protection and in that strength needs a guiding light to follow which is the feminine. Strength in forward movement but being guided by female emotional energy and wisdom. This is a giving energy. I think of a man wielding a machete carving a path through thick foliage for his family to follow.
Feminine is the receiving. The vulnerable and the strong at heart and emotion. She is water energy . She is soft , so soft that the water can erode away stone or kill very easily. She is wise, she is always bringing him toward her and guiding him from behind. Woman stands behind man but she guides him in the right direction. Nurturing and also sometimes fierce but very discerning. Think of her building a home for him to come home to after venturing out for the day.
These two energies nourish one another.
You can explore the out of alignment versions of these too-
Neg Masc- overpowering, overthinking and pushing but unsure about what direction or purpose. Self inflicting wounds, anger without cause or at those who have not harmed. Passivity or being small, feeling weak when there is no weakness. Too many primal urges. The man doesn’t know the path to clear to move the family forward, because he is out of balance, she is also out of balance because these two energies need eachother.
Neg Fem - overly critical, in ability to receive or be vulnerable, receive help or love. Knit picking or an unbalance of emotional maturing. Too many emotions not enough wisdom. Trying to lead without being held, strong willed but moving alone. Striking out at the hand that feeds. Being small, and creating obstacles in the waterway where there are none. Creating masculine energy in herself , which unbalanced comes across as harshness, crudeness or anger. She tries to become the masculine she is desiring, but she needs to realize that she needs him to become more herself.