Kristy Norris, LMFT

02/06/2026

11/30/2025

✨The kidneys process fear. ✨The heart processes trauma. ✨The adrenals process paranoia. ✨The brain & heart process stress. The lungs process sadness & grief. ✨The liver processes anger & frustration. ✨The gallbladder processes resentment. ✨The stomach, pancreas, & spleen process worry and anger.

Moral to this is, take care of yourself because your physical issues manifest AFTER the spiritual.

Your spiritual & emotional health isn't something to take lightly, because it creates your whole reality and reflects your overall HEALTH 🌀

11/11/2025

The Way We Talk to Our Children Becomes Their Inner Voice

The words we speak to our children don’t just fill the air — they shape the voice they’ll carry inside for the rest of their lives. When we respond with patience, empathy, and encouragement, we’re helping them build an inner dialogue rooted in confidence, self-compassion, and security.

Think about how powerful that is. A gentle “It’s okay to make mistakes” becomes the reassurance they give themselves years later when life feels hard. “I believe in you” turns into self-trust. “You’re safe, I’m here” becomes their ability to self-soothe when they’re overwhelmed.

On the other hand, harsh or dismissive words can plant seeds of self-doubt, fear, or shame. That’s why it’s so important to pause before reacting — especially in moments of frustration. Our tone, our phrasing, and our presence teach children how to talk to themselves long after they’ve grown.

The goal isn’t perfection — it’s awareness. Even when we make mistakes, we can model repair by saying, “I’m sorry, I shouldn’t have said that. Let’s try again.” That too becomes part of their inner voice — the part that knows growth and love are always possible.

Your words today become their self-talk tomorrow. Speak to your child the way you want them to speak to themselves.



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11/07/2025

Worries are part of growing up. As children learn about the world, their brains are still working out what feels safe, what feels uncertain, and how to make sense of big feelings.

This visual shows common worries by age — to help young people (and the adults supporting them) see that many worries are developmentally normal, not signs of something 'wrong'. These are common patterns, not fixed rules. Every child’s worries are shaped by their environment, temperament and experiences.

We stop at around age 14 because, from this point on, worries become more individual and tied to identity, friendships, belonging and life experiences. Support at this stage is less about reassurance and more about connection, curiosity and co-regulation.

If your child is feeling overwhelmed, or if worries are starting to take over everyday life, our When Worries Take Over Toolkit offers step-by-step scripts, support strategies and gentle, brain-based tools you can use right away — link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

10/29/2025

When a child is overwhelmed, they borrow the calm of the adult beside them.
If that adult’s nervous system is unsettled, the child feels it too.

Our regulation shapes theirs — it’s contagious.
Before we can guide a child through big feelings, we must learn to manage our own.

Learn more about emotional regulation and get practical strategies inside our Managing Big Feelings Toolkit (available now):
at link in comments or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

10/20/2025

Ever wondered why a brussel sprout on a dinner plate can trigger the same alarm bells as a fire?

That’s your amygdala at work — the brain’s built-in alarm system. It reacts to perceived danger, not just real danger. So whether it’s a scary roar, a maths test, or a plate of greens… your body might respond the same way!

This visual comes from our EMOTIONS AND MY BRAIN resource — available in The Contented Child Resource Store. Link in comments ⬇️ or via our Linktree Shop in Bio.

10/17/2025

Love this technique for alllll kinds of stuff we deal with.

✨What’s in the body is in the brain and what’s in the brain is in the body✨

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