02/12/2026
If you struggle with high-functioning anxiety, urgency can feel contagious. A stressed tone, a last-minute request, a disappointed face and suddenly your nervous system is acting like thereās a fire to put out.
But not every raised voice requires your immediate attention. Not every time-sensitive request requires you to de-prioritize yourself.
A few ways to practice this:
āļø Pause before responding. Urgency thrives on immediacy. Give yourself space. āLet me think about that and get back to you.ā
āļø Check your body. If you feel tight, rushed, or pressured, thatās information. Slow down instead of speeding up.
āļø Ask: Is this actually mine to fix? Discomfort is not the same as responsibility.
āļø Use neutral boundaries. āIām not able to do that today.ā No overexplaining. No apologizing for existing.
You are allowed to move at a regulated pace. You donāt have to be held hostage to their urgency.
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