Carothers Funeral Home

03/11/2026

In honor of , we are going to be featuring strong women that help shape our community all month long. This week we are featuring Maddie Kirlin:

Maddie Kirlin is a native of Gastonia, North Carolina, where her love of community, creativity, and history first took root.

She attended the University of Colorado Boulder, earning her undergraduate degree in Italian before continuing her studies at Middlebury College in Vermont, where she completed a master’s degree in Italian linguistics. After graduate school, Maddie spent several years living in Italy, deepening her connection to language, culture, and traditional craft.

Eventually she returned home to Gastonia and became deeply involved in her community. Over the years she has served as Chairwoman of the Board for the Gaston County Museum of Art & History, President of the Gaston County Jaycees, and as a board member for both the American Red Cross and the Animal League of Gaston County. She continues to share her love of traditional craft as an active member of the Historic Village Artisans, where she demonstrates traditional candle making at the Historic Village in Dallas, NC.

In 2017, Maddie survived a life-threatening brain hemorrhage that required emergency craniotomy surgery. The injury, resulting from domestic violence, permanently changed the course of her life. She lives with ongoing PTSD and neuropathy, challenges that require strength, patience, and daily resilience.

Today, Maddie is first and foremost a mother to two young children, whom she raises with deep intention, love, and care. When her health allows, she continues her creative work making candles and soaps, finding healing and meaning in the quiet rituals of craft.

Her message to other women:

You don’t have to wait for permission to step into your own life.

You are allowed to change.
You are allowed to start over.
You are allowed to create a life that feels true to you — even if no one around you understands it yet.

Strength doesn’t always look like doing more. Sometimes it looks like healing. Sometimes it looks like protecting your peace and choosing a different path than the one you expected.

If you are surviving something difficult — seen or unseen — know this: your story is not over.

Be the light. In a dark world, kindness shines the brightest.

03/11/2026

National Funeral Director’s Day is a moment to recognize the compassionate professionals who walk beside families during life’s most difficult moments. Funeral directors provide guidance, comfort, and steady support when it’s needed most, ensuring every life is honored with dignity and care. Today, we celebrate their dedication, their quiet strength, and the meaningful work they do to help families find peace and remembrance.

03/06/2026

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/funeral-homes/north-carolina/dallas/carothers-funeral-home/7274

03/06/2026

It is important to take the time for ourself and make sure our cup does not run empty helping others. Try to take part in at least one of these easy activites today and see if you notice a difference.

03/03/2026

March is Women’s History Month

A time to honor the women whose strength, courage, and compassion have shaped our communities in countless ways. Throughout history, women have led with resilience, lifted others through service, and created legacies built on care and connection.

For generations, women have also played a meaningful role in supporting families through loss. Long before funeral service became a formal profession, it was women who prepared loved ones for burial, comforted grieving families, and ensured that every life was honored with dignity. That legacy of compassion continues today, as women step forward as funeral directors, embalmers, caregivers, and leaders — guiding families with steadiness and heart.

This month, we celebrate the women who have changed history in big and small ways, and we honor the women in funeral service who continue to serve with grace, empathy, and unwavering dedication. Their work reminds us that caring for others is a powerful form of leadership — and a legacy that lasts.

Happy Women’s History Month.

03/02/2026

My name is Jacklin Macias, and I am a Funeral Director at Carothers Funeral Homes. I’m a Florida native whose heart found its home in the mountains. Today, I live in Gaston County with my husband, our two kids, and our two dogs — the little crew that keeps my world steady and full of love.

I truly love the work I do and the families I’m privileged to serve. Walking beside people during one of the most helpless and heartbreaking moments of their lives is an honor I never take lightly. Every family, every story, every goodbye matters — and I’m grateful to help make those moments a little gentler.

02/27/2026

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Some weeks ask a lot of us — our time, our energy, our hearts. But there are always small, gentle moments that remind us there is still goodness all around.

Today’s reminder:
Joy doesn’t have to be loud to be real.
A shared smile, a kind word, a quiet breath of fresh air… these little things carry us farther than we realize.

From our team to you, we hope you find a moment today that makes your shoulders drop and your heart feel just a bit lighter. You deserve that softness.

Wishing you a peaceful start to your weekend.
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02/26/2026

One of the most painful contradictions in grief is hidden inside a sentence many of us grieving a loss quietly carry...“I can’t live without them.”

And yet…we do.

Day after day.
Breath after breath.
Moment after moment.

Not because it feels possible.
Not because it feels fair.
But because life keeps moving forward.

When we lose someone we love, we’re not just losing a person. We’re losing a presence that shaped our entire sense of normal. Their voice, habits, expressions, humor, and energy became woven into our world so gradually that sometimes we never even noticed it happening.

Until it was gone.

Love has a way of quietly integrating another human being into our life so completely that they stop feeling like ‘someone we know’ and start feeling like part of how we experience existence itself.

They’re the one we text without thinking.
The one we turn to with good news.
The one whose opinion matters in all decisions.
The one whose presence makes life feel safe.

And when they die, the loss isn’t just emotional, it’s structural. The whole world itself feels altered. The silence sounds different. Our home feels unfamiliar.

We’re not just missing them. We’re navigating a world that no longer behaves the way our heart expects it to.

This is why well-meaning reassurances can feel so hollow. Phrases like “You’ll be okay” or “You’re stronger than you think” often miss the deeper reality. The pain of grief isn’t just about endurance or resilience.

It’s about learning how to exist without someone who felt essential to our very way of being.

Here’s the thing…we now live without the one we believed we couldn’t live without.

We wake up to mornings that feel wrong, move through days that feel incomplete, carry memories that arrive without warning, and we survive waves of missing them that logic can’t fix.

This isn’t strength in the way the world sees it…this is love refusing to disappear.

Gary Sturgis
Author: ‘SURVIVING GRIEF – 365 Days A Year’

02/25/2026

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Our General Manager, Amanda “Mandy” Williams longtime companions. This brother‑and‑sister duo brings equal parts chaos and love to the Williams household, and we think they deserve their moment in the spotlight.

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02/23/2026

My name is Joy Rankin and I am a funeral assistant at Carothers Funeral Homes. I am also the receptionist at Carothers Funeral Home in Stanley. I have been a Minister’s wife for 50 years. I love working for the funeral home, because I am still able to help care for families. In my free time, I enjoy spending time with my husband, my sons and their wives, my 5 grandchildren and volunteering at Salvation Church at Rankin Lake, where I am a member.

02/16/2026

My name is Gary Rankin and I am Lead Funeral Assistant at Carothers Funeral Homes. I am a retired Pastor after serving 38 years at Craig Memorial Baptist Church. I currently am Care Pastor at my church, Salvation Church at Rankin Lake. I have always had a heart for working with families at a time when they have a need.

02/13/2026

Here is a great article that explains what happens when someone passes away without a will. Do you have a plan?

What happens if you die without a will in NC? Here’s who gets your property
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