12/19/2025
Regarding Holiday Conflict…
The holiday season brings lights, traditions, and connection—but it also brings old dynamics, unspoken expectations, and the pressure to “keep the peace.” If this time of year feels complicated, you’re not alone.
Here are a few grounding reminders:
• You’re allowed to set boundaries, even with family.
• You don’t have to attend every gathering or stay longer than you can emotionally manage.
• You’re not responsible for fixing long-standing family patterns.
• You get to choose connection that feels safe, reciprocal, and respectful.
Holiday conflict doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re human. This year, give yourself permission to prioritize your wellbeing, honor your limits, and show up in ways that feel true to you.
Your peace matters just as much as anyone else’s.