02/13/2026
Glimmers vs. Triggers ✨
We talk a lot about triggers—those moments that activate our nervous system and bring up stress, fear, or emotional overwhelm. Triggers can come from memories, environments, conversations, or even body sensations. They cue our system that we might not be safe.
But there’s another side that deserves just as much attention: glimmers.
Glimmers are small moments that signal safety and connection to our nervous system. They’re brief, often subtle, but powerful. Think:
-Sunlight coming through the window
- A genuine smile from someone
- The sound of laughter in another room
- A comforting song
- Your pet resting beside you
While triggers pull us into survival states (fight, flight, freeze, fawn), glimmers gently guide us back to regulation—reminding the body that safety, calm, and joy are available too.
Healing work isn’t only about identifying triggers. It’s also about training our awareness to notice glimmers.
You might try:
- Keeping a “glimmer journal”
- Pausing when you feel even a flicker of calm
- Sharing glimmers with safe people
- Creating environments that invite them
Over time, noticing glimmers helps build nervous system flexibility, resilience, and emotional safety.
Both triggers and glimmers tell a story. One says, “Protect yourself.” The other says, “You’re safe enough to soften.” 💛