01/06/2026
A New Year Isn’t About Reinventing Yourself. It’s About Seeing Yourself Clearly.
As the new year begins, many of us feel that familiar mix of optimism and self-criticism. We imagine a “better” version of ourselves waiting on the other side of January. Healthier. More disciplined. More fulfilled.
After years of working with individuals, leaders, and athletes, I’ve noticed something consistent. Sustainable change rarely comes from pressure or perfection. It comes from clarity, self-compassion, and intention.
Goal-setting is not about making promises you later judge yourself for breaking. It’s about choosing a direction and giving yourself something steady to move toward.
This is where visualization becomes especially powerful.
Visualization isn’t fantasy or wishful thinking. It’s a practice that helps your brain and body understand what you are working toward and why it matters. When you take time to picture yourself living in alignment with your values, how you show up, how you respond to challenges, how you feel at the end of the day, you begin to create a sense of familiarity with that version of yourself.
Your nervous system starts to recognize it as possible.
I often encourage people to begin with intentions rather than goals. Intentions reflect how you want to be. Calm. Present. Confident. Grounded. Goals are simply the behaviors that support those intentions. When the two are aligned, motivation feels less forced and far more sustainable.
It is also important to keep goals realistic and humane. Research consistently shows that rigid, sweeping resolutions rarely last. Small, meaningful actions repeated over time are what actually create change. Visualization can help here too. Instead of focusing only on the end result, visualize the process. See yourself showing up imperfectly but consistently. That is where confidence is built.
And finally, remember that growth is not meant to happen in isolation. Whether through community, mentorship, or intentional reflection, connection helps keep our goals grounded in reality rather than shame.
This year, instead of asking, “How do I become someone else?”
Try asking, “How do I support the version of myself I am already becoming?”
That shift changes everything.
Happy New Year to all.
Dr. Leigh Richardson